Are you as aroused as I am? Safe-sex-conscious horned-up married dude here, seeking ladies wanting to live in the moment. She who likes to draw out that moment, make it last for hours, all afternoon, or all night...savoring every touch, kiss, lick, and stroke. Probably easier to list what I DON'T like, so with that in mind: Pushy, arrogant people or folks who think and act as if their s*** doesn't stink are not welcome. Not interested in that hot single that turns out to really be a couple but advertises here as single. If you have no pic attached to your ad - well, we all know what that probably means - you probably won't hear back from me unless your msg includes pic(s). Looking for unpretentious straight-up horny women. Here's one that's off the wall...for my beautiful lover to have body hair is HOT. No, I'm not a freak, just a guy who grew up outside the country in a place where women didn't shave, it was the norm. Something about that au naturale form turns on the animal in me. Ok - I told the truth here - how 'bout you? Does your post tell me who you are? Or is it just who you WISH you are?

My Ideal Person No b.s. No dark surprises. Meet me halfway, don't expect to ask all the questions but never have to answer any yourself.

Once we get past introductions to the bedroom (or pool table, floor, lawn, car hood, etc.) I'm into lovers that savor the moment and try to make it last. If you think sex is supposed to be a wham-bam blur of frenzy leading to bruised flesh, hair-pulling, spitting, abuse... you should probably keep on looking. If you have to have "candy/tina" or other hard chemicals to have a good time I'm probably not your guy. Herbal lovers, on the other hand, are welcome. If you enjoy taking the time to enjoy the soft touch of a finger's caress, or the tickling of your lover's breath across that most-sensitive of skin, the kinds of sensations you can enjoy for hours on end, we might be a great match!