I am a 43 year old attractive Black Heterosexual Dominant man with brown eyes, and a muscular built. I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for about twenty years, and have enjoy it in many of its forms. I always seek balance in my life, so I believe one must have control over themselves first, before they can truly control others. My hobbies are weight lifting, martial arts, science, hiking, travel, history, back riding, white water rafting & enjoying all life has to offer. Eventually, what I ultimately seek is a monogamous, moderate Master/slave relationship with many of the elements of a 1950's household. When it comes to training I believe good slaves are cultivated not found, so I especially enjoy training novices. But this by no means excludes experience submissives as well. Ideally, what I seek is an attractive, fit, intelligent, honest, spiritual, submissive woman between the ages of 22-35 in the NYC, CT, NJ areas.