I know this update will scare some men away, and that is totally ok…. I have updated my information because I am no longer looking for a FWB. I am looking for a LTR. I want to find someone that enjoys conversations, going to dinner or cooking at home, watching a movie, walking around a flea market, whatever... and then come home and enjoy sex. I’m not looking for someone to move in with me or me moving in with him. Occasionally overnight stays are nice. You have your own place and I have mine. I’m also not looking for someone to marry. I think if two people are in a LTR, then that also means that we live relatively close to each other. I’m not interested in a long distance relationship. And with this said, I do not think MARRIED men fit into my definition. If you are MARRIED, please put it on your profile. Why should someone need to ask you if you are MARRIED? There is a spot to specify whether you are single, married, divorced, or separated. If you are a standard member, I understand you can't see my pictures. If you could, you would know that I am a BBW. I don't hide it. You can tell from my pictures. If you don't like BBW's, I totally understand, but don't be surprised when I tell you I am. Become a paying member so you can see all of the information/pictures on the profiles. I'm also a squirter. I can't keep it from happening. If this isn't something you like, then move on to the next woman. If you get upset because I don't answer your IM.... Move on to the next woman! I can only chat with about 3 men at one time at the most. You may be number 10.... YES, there are that many or more sometimes that want to chat. I do my best but sometimes chatting with everyone is impossible. If you are looking for someone to dominate.... Move on to the next woman! However, if you are looking for a smart, independent, sexual and sensuous woman, then send me an email or a message on IM if you think you would be interested in a LTR.