White married couple secure seeking ongoing fwb scenario with single male that can host and wants friends in and out of bedroom.

Der ideale Mensch für mich The ideal male will be a mature man both in age and in personality. I am drawn to black men but no real success with long term yet......different mind set it seems.
My ideal male will be unattached that has his own place to get away to. Hubby will be present most times and even help me select the male friend I seek.
I want a long term friend and sexual relationship with this man we seek ....evenings together , even short weekends away for the 3 of us.
This hopefully would develop into a very relaxed and secure sexual relationship and the 3 of us become great friends...hubby is straight.
I know I am asking way too much but I long for our sexual activity to become more on the level of love making and not just a fuck...........in due time with true friends there would be times our activities are totally one on one but not in the beginning. We want to get aquainted and make the right choice by taking it slowly.
Hopefully there is one available man that seeks the same and has the knowledge and experience to know how to approach me...but most will be disqualified with your first reply. thanks guys for reading and hope we all find what we seek.