spicy_secret1 55 / 41 / C
"Looking for bi single females and fun couples (NO SINGLE MEN)"
Alexander City, Alabama, United States
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spicy_secret1 55/C
Alexander City, Alabama
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Finally Gold Members again, and can see people's emails. Same name on the Y.

About him (and the freaky way he thinks)...
Sexy, fit, young for his age, professional, with an adventurous side. As said by him:
Maybe you have a "real" life, but crave a secret indulgence, a place to really let go, a place to be the part of you that is kept hidden, someone to feel safe with while exploring what you've craved or fantasized about, but were too afraid to reveal. What would it feel like to truly be unbridled?

Perhaps we can help with that. He is intelligent, charming, good looking, in shape (5'11", 183 pounds), a little kinky, and leads a conservative, successful, professional life 8 to 5. There is a lot more to learn, if you're interested. If you have questions, want to flirt (one of his favorite things), or are needing a little erotic attention, we can talk, exchange photos and see where it goes. He is our primary communicator online. Oddly, she's shy behind the keyboard, but much more comfortable in person, and likely the first one to be naked if the chemistry is there.

About her: Beautiful inside and out. And suffice it to say that she's HOT! Petite, 5'1", 115 lbs, natural DD's, blonde, adventurous, bi, pretty much insatiable and PERFECT FOR ME. And for you? She is fully bi and we prefer bi women and couples with bi women. Please be willing to give pleasure and receive it. Although her tastes are not limited to a certain look, she does have a thing for dark haired women with a more olive complection. If you look like Eva Mendez, BRING IT! She'll be in absolute heaven. Also, she's a petite woman. If you're hung like a horse, please pass us by. Average size is just fine, if you know how to use it and things ever get to that point. Penetration depends, first and foremost, on friendship, feeling comfortable, safe and respected. It doesn't happen often, so please manage your expectations.

Something very important about us: We're very respectful and expect the same. We've had a couple of experiences where our conversations with someone seemed like a good match, then we met them and within two minutes, the guy is asking, "Can I fuck her?" Huge FAIL. There is so much more to great sensual adventures than the physical deed. Our brains are the most powerful sexual organs we possess. Use them. Explore the mental side of things and you'll discover a whole new dimension to sensuality and one which creates a lot more intimacy and intensity. At least this is how we're wired and hope to find those rare playmates who are wired the same. And guys, if the ladies are playing, let them play. Don't get in a hurry. We guys can sit back and enjoy the magic taking place in front of us. You know they're going to invite us into the fray eventually, and by then, they'll be wonderfully charged up, lusty creatures.

We're at Lake Martin -- easily accessible to Montgomery, Wetumpka, Auburn/Opelika, Columbus, Newnan, and Birmingham. We have work and family lives, and need to work around our responsibilities, so please understand if we can't drop everything and run on a moment's notice.

We won't play games with you. You have your life and the demands that come with it. But if we connect, it won't be endless emails or bailing out on arrangements to meet. If we say we will be there, we will be there.

My Ideal Person Looking for bi female and sexy couples with bi/bi-curious females. Would love to find a sexy female playmate for her, but could be both of us -- especially for an ongoing intimate, affectionate relationship. Yes, we're looking for the proverbial unicorn. One has to believe, right? He is content to watch sometimes, but would also love joining in. Sexy couples for soft or full swap (if the chemistry is there), same room. HWP really helps, y'all. Not into large women or interracial. Sorry. Everyone has their personal preferences.

No games, no drama, no scams, NO SINGLE OR BI GUYS. Same room and we do not play separately.

There is something undeniably intoxicating about crossing boundaries for the forces of passion. Are you younger and crave the experience and skills of an older, sexy man and his hot wife? Are you older, stuck in an "is this all there is?" relationship, and feel the craving for more? Or to feel like an attractive, sexy, deeply desired woman again and be consumed? Just looking to connect, be friends, share something steamy -- maybe over and over again -- and have fun.

How about appearance, body type, etc.? Pretty broad spectrum there as well. But we all like attractive people, and everyone has a preferred body type. Skinny? A LITTLE extra padding? Tall? Petite? Large breasts or small? Yes, we like them all, but please understand. We've met a few people online whose photos were VERY different than reality. Please be straightforward about your body type. It's no fun for anyone to drive great distances to meet someone and find out they are not as they portrayed. A face pic and body pic will ease that tension quickly. Please send them. We'll do the same. For him, this has more to do with the woman INSIDE than the woman outside, but WITHIN REASON. Physically hot is great, but sexy comes from the inside. We both are shaved down below and prefer that (and excellent hygiene all around) in our playmates.

We like women who are pretty, who have a sexy, trim body and look great in stockings and high heels. We like women (and couples) who can be proper, respectable, socially adept and graceful in public, then can completely let go when we get alone. Hopefully, you GET this, and ARE this.

So, if you contact us, it's important that we know you are real, and not someone else. Oh, and we've wasted our valuable time with picture collectors and what seems to be guys masquerading as women. If we hear, "Oh, my webcam is broken," or make excuses when it's time to talk on the phone for verification, we're going to assume you're some skinny, pale, bi, degenerate male just in this to spank the monkey. Please pass us by.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
She's got a huge crush on Eva Mendez. I'd happily
do 90% of the women on Fox News. :)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 55/41 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Alexander City, Alabama, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: No
Birthdate: April 22, 1963 September 10, 1976
Relocate?: No No
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm 5 ft 1 in
Body Type: Athletic Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a cigar/pipe smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Some college High school graduate
Occupation: Creative/Marketing health care
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Christian Christian
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 34 / 75 D
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper Blonde
Hair Length: Short Long
Eye Color: Green Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses None