We are a bi couple looking for the same. We are late 40's/50. Both are good looking and fit (she is really fit). We are new to the lifestyle but starting to explore what is out there. Would like to meet a couple that we can also be friends with not just for sex. We are both active, intelligent, professionals that like to have fun. We are a soft swap couple at this time. She is looking mainly for some FF play. He is orally bi (will bottom if the situation is right). For couples, it's not necessary that the man be bi, but if he's open to it or at least not freaked out about it, then that would be great. We are not looking for single men at this time.