When I go out, I might hang out at the bookstore, or just go wherever. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I get along best with people who are always looking for new people, places and experiences. When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. For me a perfect Friday night is looking for adventure-and finding it. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. I'm not changing my life, I'm celebrating it by moving on to bigger and better things. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.