skimmer89 49 / 47 / C
"It's all in good fun...."
Olathe, Kansas, United States
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skimmer89 49/C
Olathe, Kansas
The best things in life... mess up your hair ;)
I am not looking to be a 3rd with another couple but if it's all about the women and the play intended is just the women having fun, I am ok with that. Just not looking to have a MFF threesome at this time. I would consider a MFM threesome with the right men.

I truly appreciate all the messages and comments that I receive. Please don't be offended if I don't respond. I'm a nice person and hate to hurt anyone's feelings. I know what I'm looking for and I respond when I feel that I'm interested and can have a good connection and chemistry with someone.

I'm an attractive married woman looking to meet and have occasional fun with men or women. I'm average in shape, not athletic. If you are ok with that then so am I.
My husband is ok with and aware of my activities and conversations. He is very encouraging and likes to know that I'm out having fun. It's a turn on for both of us. However, he will not hesitate to step in if he feels he needs to for my safety and well being. I play alone but do like to take pic's and video's for my husband to watch when I get home. If interested, please let me know.
I can be a little shy at first until I'm comfortable and get to know someone, but once a comfort level is established, I'm ready
I consider myself genuine, friendly, kind and honest. Looking for those same traits in others. I'm not after perfection in others, but attraction, cleanliness, chemistry and being disease free is very important. I'm not into one night stands or hook up's. I need to get to know someone, develop a friendship and have a physical/sexual attraction to play. Overall I want a true fwb's that I can't wait to see occasionally and have an exceptional time with.

My Ideal Person Someone who is kind, respectful, attractive, educated and intelligent. Someone who will always remember I am happily married and only looking for some fun and friendship. Someone who likes to chat, flirt and get to know me until we meet.
Looking for someone with a good attitude, normal and fun! No strings or drama just an occasional good time is all I'm looking for!

Sexually stimulating conversation is such a turn on for me. If you can turn me on with your words and conversation, I'm very interested in getting to know you
I do want to exchange a face pic when chatting with someone. I need physical attraction with someone. CONDOM'S are a must!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Meeting someone on the dance floor... dancing and touching....
teasing, flirting..... Meeting a stranger in a hotel bar,
having a couple of drinks and then going to their room.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Paul Wesley from the Vampire Diaries... he is so hot :) Also...
Jamie Dornan, Scott Eastwood, Chris Hemsworth and Ian
Somerhalder. Yummm... :)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 49/47 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Olathe, Kansas, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: June 28, 1969 June 25, 1971
Relocate?: No No
Height: Prefer not to say 5 ft 6 in
Body Type: Prefer not to say Average
Smoking: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Drinking: Prefer not to say I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say Associate degree (2 years college)
Race: Prefer not to say Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable Christian
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say N/A
Circumcised: Prefer not to say N/A
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 DD (E, if no DD)
Glasses or Contacts: None None