safe4u2cme 62 / M
"Seeking Lady for friendship and lover."
St. Louis, Missouri, United States
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Member Since: October 19, 2001

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safe4u2cme 62/M
St. Louis, Missouri
We don't have to spend this year alone. Please read my profile, and see if we might be right for each others needs.
I'm a married white male in the middle of life.

I am 6ft and 275# with baby blue eyes and a full short trimmed graying beard covering a baby face. I do not believe I should have to lie to you to attract a friend and lover. I know someone out there will enjoy my friendship and company, if she will just take the time to know me. B]

I enjoy a woman who is intelligent and playful. But you must also be honest with me and yourself about what it is you want from our relationship, and where you want it to go.

Surely you know why I am here on AdultFriendFinder. To find a lover and I hope a friend. As a friend I would like you to be able to tell me virtually anything, even things you would not tell your husband or boyfriend. Sometimes you just need someone to listen to you as you get things off your chest. As a lover, I hope you will let me know when I find the right spot or touch, with a soft moan,( or scream yes! ) or suggest something else if I am off the mark. Or if I have found the right touch and wander away to soon, pull me back. The greatest compliment a woman can pay her partners prowess as a lover, is to loose herself in the pleasure she is feeling and show him that smile of contentment and lust as one orgasm fades and another starts to build.

I seek a playmate and lover who can appreciate a man who takes his time and cares about your enjoyment as much as his own. My wife, who has always been my best friend, lost her eyesight and feels she looks like a monster to me. Nothing could be further from the truth, but she refuses all intimacy - and it has gotten pretty lonely.

I do not have a great deal of time to devote to our play, as I am raising my grandson who is 11 years old and my granddaughter who is 8. They are the center of my life for the foreseeable future, and that will not change. But I have come the the realization that I need to have someone I can talk to, listen to, and make love to - to make love to me. Drop me a note, or we can chat on AdultFriendFinder's IM. Let me take you to dinner, so we can see each others eyes when we talk. I will be hoping you ask me to get us a room, so we can enjoy each other for dessert. But if you decide to say good night instead, I will be disappointed, (hell I likely will pout), but I will accept your decision. I want a lover and friend, not a one night stand.

I do have a rather unusual job which you can ask me about. You are not likely to have met anyone who does what I do for a living.

You may have eaten one of MY creations.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman rather than a girl. But that is as much about your outlook on life, as it is about your age.
(My oldest girl just turned 40, but I did start rather young.)
Since I am a man I naturally would like you to be ravishingly beautiful, and a nymphomaniac. But since I am closer to John Goodman than George Cloony in appearance, I will be happy if you are just attractive to me.
I do not expect you to be a Barbie Doll and I am by no means Ken. I am not as pretty and I am anatomically correct.

If you are seeking a lover and friend who really wants to know your wishes, needs and desires; please drop me a note.

I would like a longer term no strings relationship - if that makes sense. I do not want to be running from woman to woman, I would rather have one steady friend and playmate.

And although I am most definitely seeking an active lover, I do not expect that each time we meet, has to end with a mad rush to a hotel for a quick slam bam. I am sure there will be times when dinner and quite conversation is all you desire.
. Above all you must talk to me honestly about what you like, dislike and have dreamed of trying with a lover.

After all, we guys are fairly easy to please, you have to give me a fighting chance at pleasing you.

Discretion is an absolute must.

Hope to hear from you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A lady for Love Bondage - An atractive woman who is tied securely to a bed or table. Totally exposed to anything I wish to do and helpless to stop me. I would lick and rub and tease her to the brink of a orgasm, but not let her go over the top. Holding her there on the brink. Then when she thinks she will never be satisfied, just endless teasing, taking her all the way. Watching her body quiver in orgasm as she wreaths in pleasure. Then back to the slow torture for who knows how long.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Food Play, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Where is good old sex?

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 62 / male
  • St. Louis, Missouri, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: November 8, 1955
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Engineering/Technica
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Protestant
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses