Howdy Im Rixxi , I'm somewhat shy _that's why no pix_, intelligent, quiet _unless you get me started talking about music and classic film_. I possess a sense of humor and I'm pretty much interested in everything. I'm African American, medium complexion, 53 y/o. I'm told I'm handsome _this guy said I look like a movie star_. Me personally, I don't believe that. I don't find myself all that attractive _hence, no pix_, I think I'm alright. I'm thin _skinny_ always have been. I'm very laid back. I'm quiet, yet I'm a good conversationalist. I'm drama free and I don't care for drama in others. I'm comfortable with myself and don't mind folks knowing I'm gay _I'd better not, I wrote a book about it_, I possess a positive outlook on life, so I'm not a negative person. I have a "can do" spirit. I enjoy working Sexually I'm a romantic passive bottom. I can be versatile but let me warn you, if I have to be a top, I pop my cork very soon, which may leave you frustrated and unfulfilled. I love to give and receive oral. I love kissing, hugging, holding caressing, touching and exploring. I'm fun in bed as I don't lie there like an immobile lump of liver, I'm....active! What am I looking for? Well, a friend first but I hope that the friendship leads to something more. As you can possibly tell by my love of letter writing, kissing, etc, I can be very romantic. I've never had a real romance, I'd like to experience that. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with himself and possesses a sense of humor. Hmmm, that' all I can think of for now, but if you want to know more shoot me an e-mail