I'm here because I want to explore and experience sex based on a dom/sub relation. However, I'm not into leading a BDSM life style. It's more a case of my preferred type of sexual relations. Over the last few years I've come to realize that I crave and desire the dominant position with a woman that willingly submits. As my handle indicates, it's about pleasure, for both parties. Just as much as I want to be the dominant, the woman craves the submissive role. I will not here talk in detail about what I'm after, but I'm turned on by blindfolds, ball gags and bondage as a means to heighten the anticipation and desire. I'm a believer in postponing gratification. Also I like it rough and dirty. The woman must be into anal sex on the receiving end. She must crave to be fucked in the ass with cocks, toys and fingers. She must also like dirty talk. In fact she must love to be called all kinds of bad, have scatological and derogatory terms hurled at her during sex, made to feel like a worthless piece of ass. To finish, I want to make clear that I'm delineating a sexual relationship. I'm no misogynist. In my everyday life I have no desire to treat a woman bad. My everyday persona is friendly, polite, funny and easy going. In short, a gentleman. But when it comes to sex I enter a different state of mind. I want it edgy, rough, dirty and wild. In short, the in me comes out.

My Ideal Person As mentioned above I want rough sex and I'm looking for women who want it rough and want a submissive role. I'm attracted to women who presents 'ladylike' front in the everyday, someone you wouldn't think of as a 'slut'.

Whether you are experienced or a beginner doesn't matter. The important thing is that you're certain in your mind that this is the kind of sex life you want. Even if you're take charge person with a leadership position in your job life; underneath you're an insatiable whore who craves, really craves, to be told what to do, used, abused, fucked at home, fucked in public, fucked in the workplace. You totally want to give away control.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
60's motown, 60's soul, rolling stones, the who,
beatles, ac/dc, prince, springsteen

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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