So, I wanted to update my profile to clear the air, so there are no misunderstandings or misconceptions as to who I am and why I am on here. I am a REAL guy in Tuc looking for companionship, FWB, NSA, fucking, fun, whatever you want to call it. I am single, no s (unless you count the and two cats). No ex-wife or girlfriend around causing drama. No calls in the middle of the night asking when I’m coming home. I am yours as long as you want me. Just because I do not want a wife or g/f, I don’t think that is justification for depriving me of the best thing about being alive. Ladies from Phoenix, Casa Grande, Sierra Vista, and points between or nearby are always welcome to contact me. I have the ability to travel if the need or desire arises, but please be aware of the restrictions of time and distance. If you choose to travel, that’s great too. if my initial impression does not appeal to you, then don’t bother reading any further, you will be wasting your time. If you made it to this paragraph, then, again, you know my stated rea for being on here. Now, let me tell you a little more about myself. If you are single, that’s great, if you are currently “attached” or involved, that’s fine too, but make no mistake. I do not play games; I will not play games or be used in any. If we agree to get together, it’s because YOU decided, as an adult, to make your own choices and decisions. Discretion is crucial in these cases and I will not be party to any bullshit. Leave your jealousy, anger and emotional baggage at home with him. I respect people who decide to commit to each other, but given my own, very bitter experience, I am also a realist. Do not judge me for any decisions I make, and I promise you will receive none. I do not have a specific “type” of woman I like. Body type, race, religion, beliefs, etc ., are not factors I usually take into immediate consideration. I love all women. I feel that EVERY woman has a sensual and sexual being inside screaming to be let out , no matter what you feel about yourself , have been told or been made to feel in the past. I have a particular thing (fetish, if you like) for fingernails. Not the long clawed, curved type, but well manicured, French or trimmed. For some rea dark polish drives me absolutely crazy. I am willing to get a little dirty and kinky, but out right pain is not an option. Heavy machinery, chains, whips, etc, are not my cup of tea. Blindfolds, ice cubes, a little pinch here, nibble there, those are all great. I am willing to explore further but will definitely expect you to respect my boundaries and limits as to what I am willing to do. I also have a thing for eyes. Not just color, but in relation the face, eyebrows, hair color, etc. If you have what I regard as great eyes, then expect to get a message from me. With me, you get a clean slate, no preconceptions, and you can reinvent yourself. Just because I am on a site like this, does not mean, however, that I am not open to more than fun and no commitment either. I am totally down for drinks, dinner, etc. Hence the “F” in FWB. I will treat you and give you the utmost respect at all times. I am not a woman hater, I love women, and love it more when I know they are having a good time with me. If something develops beyond the FWB/NSA relationship, well then, I am happy to explore that avenue if it comes to that. My profile pics are of me, and they are very recent, within the last week , around 12 -15 Feb 2013. There are some face and body pics, in addition to a couple that are more risqué. I am not perfect, I am not looking nor expect to find perfection. If you cannot see my pics or can only see the main profile pic, let me know and we will arrange some way for you to receive more. Also specify whether you want naughty or nice, or both. I don’t want to rush or push things to fast. If going slow is what you want, I am agreeable to that. If you want instant and fast, I am game also. If you do not have any pics posted, I would like to see at least a face pic, its nice to “see” who you are talking to. I am a Tuc native, and my job gives me some measure of public exposure, absolute discretion is requested if you happen to see me around, whether or not we have met in per, online, or not. I will respect the same for you. From a peral standpoint, I am a computer geek (my profession), music geek , I read a lot (I mean a lot) and am happy in a club dancing all night, at a bar for intimate drinks, or at home watching a movie or listening to music. I actually love snuggling and the light stuff (kissing, massaging, rubbing, etc) almost as much as sex itself, intense foreplay and arousal only increases the pleasure and ultimate releases sure to follow. Our first meeting will likely be full of foreplay anyway, mental and physical. Do not be shy about telling me what you like and don’t. I do not like dis-passionate, unanimated women. If you lay or sit there expecting me to do ALL the work, whether conversationally, sexually, or otherwise, we are not going to get along. Nothing turns me off more quickly than a woman who cannot express herself verbally, sexually, or by deed or action. I guess I have rambled enough. Now that I have laid it all out there, I will probably get fewer responses than before, but I am a very honest, open per. You will have no problem knowing what I am thinking of feeling, because chances are I will tell you, whether you ask or not. I know there are women in Tuc and thereabouts that are looking for me, we just have to find each other. The rest will take care of itself.

My Ideal Person I am pretty open to just about anyone. Been a long lonely time for me so companionship and sex (to be blunt) is all I am looking for. I don't particularly want a g/f, not looking to get married anytime soon. But am open to whatever develops, I'm not a completely cold-hearted bastard

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
fucking or getting blowjob in a car (yes while driving).
FFM encounters are always fun. Getting picked up in a bar
and used all weekend as a fuck tool

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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