I am a working professional, separated and getting divorced. There is no anger about the divorce, it was by mutual agreement. Over the last few years, I have lost (or lost track of) many good friends. It caused me to "pull in" like an emotional armadillo. That is over. But I am still reconnecting socially. (A little patience here will work wonders.) I am in the process of starting a new career. I am no workaholic, but do believe there is something important about work and/or peral achievement. I like new experiences and mix well with most everyone. I am casual and easy going, but I have opinions and will voice them. I have lived in 7 states and have traveled extensively abroad. I am a nature fan and like water, wind, trees and live stuff, generally. I am some percentage of geek, some percentage of nerd and some percent completely NON digital. I like anything creative. I like movies, books, graphic novels, magazines, some TV series (via Netflix). I even like (certain) anime and manga. I like animals of all kinds, most s, some adults. lol Physically, I guess I am what I am. I feel better now that I did 10 years ago. I would say my build is average now, 6 feet tall, between 180-190 lbs. Generally, I am in good physical condition. I stay very "active." Physically, I need to explore more. Intimacy had shrunk down to nano-scale in my previous relationship. It leaves me uncertain of what I "need" or what I "like." In the past, I wasn't "Dr. Kinkmaster", but I did have plenty of experience, just the same. Maybe I am too horny to ponder this, at the moment without a bias. The conversation keeps originating in the wrong "brain" if you get my drift. I am very open and accepting, however. Things that might help explain me: -I have been to India and Africa, but not Las Vegas. -I used to enjoy cooking but haven't done much lately. -I have owned 5 motorcycles. -I hitch-hiked 1800 mile once. -I can juggle (poorly) -I play music (better than the juggling.) Just for fun. -I have both a workshop and a studio in my home. -I spot spelling mistakes constantly. It is an ability I can't turn off. Typo-King. -I met Bob Hope once. Before he died, I mean, not lately. -I have from one to one and one half jobs at any given time. Not counting outside work or peral work. -I am part of the 99%. Always have been, probably always will be, no matter my income. -I don't drink much, but don't have an issue with others that drink. I don't take non-prescription drugs. I am drama free, disease free, no lurking surprises. I don't hold any prejudices or bias toward race, religion or peral aspects of anyone else. I am attentive, can be gentle (or not), can lead or follow. I am still learning about myself! I am very open to new experiences and ready to meet some friends. Contact me: I will reply to any email except spam. Feel free to ask questions. I will reply frankly. Wishing you a great adventure!

Ma personne idéale : I am hoping to meet someone who can do the following:
• relax once in a while! Take time off from "must dos" and try creative boredom occasionally. Think "porch swing" or "sunny walk."
•Smile easily. In the past I have prided myself in being generally optimistic. Eventually, life wore out my optimism. I need it back and am working hard to regain it. It would be nice if a friend could be a positive influence in that respect.
• Be open and trusting/trustworthy, both as the situation allows and unless there is an issue. In other words, take things at "face value" unless that is unwise or impossible. I am a pathetic liar, so I don't do it much. You shouldn't either. I'm a big person and can deal with truth without drama. Give me that chance. I am not asking for "100% disclosure" or "no secrets." I want to know where I am, though.
• Laugh often. I love humor, laughing and comedy. For me, it balances the seriousness of the rest of life. I like jokes and standup comedy and the way it can wipe away everything else so my brain gets to breathe.
• Be somewhat independent. By nature I am a "helper." If a friend has needs, I usually come through. If unbalanced, though, I can dig a hole that I can never dig my way out of. I have learned how to respect and provide boundaries in the past few years, but don't want to slip into and unhealthy relationship role. I have a generous nature (not discussing money here) and like to be able to exercise it without always having to second guess myself or anyone else.
• Be physical. Because I am. I like touch and all the good things you get from it and give with it. If you don't like touch you probably won't like me.
• Be open to creativity and wonder. I am a creative person and hope to find others that either participate in creativity or at least enjoy the process. I am an artist, play music for fun and have lots of "projects" on the fire at any given time.

420 friendly would be a kick as well.

Quel est l'endroit qui vous fait fantasmer pour une rencontre sexuelle ?:
Un lit, La plage, Un véhicule mobile (c'est-à-dire une voiture), Au milieu d'un parc, Un cinéma, Un endroit éloigné dans le désert, Sous une cascade, Une piscine ou un jaccuzi, Une chambre d'hôtel

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Jouets (vibrateurs/godemichés/etc.), L'esclavage en douceur, La fessée, Jeux de rôles, La partouze, Masturbation mutuelle, Jeu de la bouffe, Participer dans une photographie érotique, Menottes/Chaînes, Bander les yeux, Cuir, Latex, Massage

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, Attraction physique, Discrétion, Participerait à sexe à trois et /ou orgies, Appétit sexuel, En faveur d'une relation sexuelle libre et sans engagement

Avez-vous déjà fantasmé sur une célébrité ? Qui ? Qu'est-ce qui vous excitait ?:
No, not specifically. I like real people.

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
J’ai essayé, mais ce n’est vraiment pas la même chose.

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