[color #663300][b]COPYRIGHT NOTICE & WARNING:[/b] Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects or research--regardless of the purpose or scope--are hereby advised that all user-generated content of this profile is the intellectual property of its author and protected under current copyright law. [i]Permission is not granted to use any portion of this profile or associated images in whole or in part, in any form, extracted or not, for any purpose or forum whatsoever, either now or in the future.[/i] Any use of or reference to material on this profile without prior permission is not only a violation of peral privacy but an infringement of our copyright and is subject to legal ramifications.[/color] [COLOR #003366]She's an amateur pin-up girl; he's a self-taught pervert. We like to watch homemade porn and professional burlesque; we get as much of our news as possible from indy media and [I]The Daily Show[/I]. We enjoy interesting places with small groups of even more interesting people. We thought 'retro' and 'vintage' were hot long before they became mainstream, not because we're cool like that so much as because we fetishize the details of the past. We wish hipsters were nicer to strangers. We vote. We titter over the fact that the word for someone who collects trivia is 'spermologist'. In terms of what we're up for when playing with others, this depends almost entirely on the per or people involved. We're more [b]"kinksters"[/b] than [b]"swingers"[/b], and generally play with others who are as well. That covers a lot of ground, we know, but basically what it means to us is that "playing with others" ≠ "kinky" until you make it kinky. We ONLY play together. This doesn't mean we're always involved to the same degree or in the same way, but we'll both be there. All to say, neither of us is interested in hooking up with someone without the other in the same room participating in some way (cheering us on, nibbling a neck, fucking with wild abandon, or simply watching from wherever they're tied up). On the whole, it comes down to this...we're basically thoughtful, aware and pretty together people who love our inner-geeks as much as our inner-freaks. [/COLOR]

My Ideal Person We're looking to meet smart, sexy playmates who are able to be thoughtful about what's happening even with their casual partners. We are, and we expect the same from our playmates.

We realize this puts us on in the minority on AdultFriendFinder, but as we said above, we're really not 'swingers' per se. We like to play with others who can respect our boundaries even as they push us to move past them, and who have an expansive definition of what constitutes 'sex'.

Your body size and shape, age, race, etc. are not that important to us; what is very important, however, is that we all find each other sexy in one way or another. We know full well that what we think is hot is a total turn-off to a lot of people, and we hope that many of those people understand that we're not turned-on by their version of sexy. (For example: For us, sex in a car can be really fucking hot. Sex in a Hummer, eh, not so much. Sex in the woods? Bring on the nymphs, naiads and satyrs. Sex on a golf course? Unless it's a piece of performance irony, we'll take a mulligan, even though we're not really sure what a mulligan is.)

All this to say that while some physical attraction is a crucial part of any great sexual experience, it's only one essential part as far as we're concerned -- there has to be at least some chemistry/connection that derives from compatible personalities. Tactile and psychological stimulation are as important to us as visual stimulation is.

NOTE: We are NOT looking to have an experience with straight single men at this time, so if you've emailed us and haven't heard back don't take it personally.

If you contact us, please be honest, straightforward and respectful. You can be as filthy as you want to be, but if you're an ass about it, don't expect a reply.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Tori Amos, Tull, Fairport Conv., Dresden Dolls, Rasputina,
Tom Waits, Elvis Costello

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, My desk at work, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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