I'm looking for some fun without the bar scene, I'm on AFF looking for those who are here to move towards meeting, not just talking about sex. I'd rather spend my time with someone skin on skin with nothing between us other than sweat and a condom. I typically have another problem and it's more with women during sex, you see I'm a multiple squirted in that well for me it's not that I cum and it's over. It's just the first round, how many rounds we go is based on how much of those ever so desired feeling you can handle. However I have a rule about meeting, it's just a meeting nothing needs to happen. If it doesn't feel right, just tell me and I won't take offense. If that time doesn't feel right, I won't hold it against you. But please be polite enough to show up should we agree to meeting. However since I'm not a visual per, perality and chemistry matters to me. I'm not perfect looking and I don't expect you to be either, yet we all have things we desire. To me nothing beats a woman who is comfy in her own skin. I don't webcam. Plain and simple it feels like porn. Sure I may be cumming but in the end I'm still masturbating and I want better than my fondling myself with both hands. Nothing beats another per's touch. I do have some rules 1. What goes on between us stays between us. 2. I wear the condom, this is a deal breaker for me. 3. You must lick you out while you just enjoy, I love the taste of an orgasm and the feeling of your fluids dripping down my hairless chest and beyond. 4. We both must be wearing the same amount of clothing, remember condoms are not clothing. This rule is for voyeurism and foreplay. 5. If you don't like something say so and we can try something different 6. If you like something keep kissing me and I'll keep going 7. This would be our dirty secret, and I promise to be discreet about it. 8. You must be comfortable making out naked, it's one of my ways to break the ice and I think you should be comfy doing such My ideal per is someone who is quiet and discrete. Perhaps some friends with benefits and I prefer someone who could host. I have religious roommates who don't know I'm sexually active and you don't want to hear their lecture on sex before marriage. I just think that shouldn't be part of the after sex time. However I would not rule out something like sex in a semi public place such as the beach or sharing the cost of a place somewhere. As for expereince, I am open to most ideas and prefer to take my time and please the other per with what they want and am always open to new things and I don't mind teaching at all. Who says a little hands on education is a bad thing? After all, we are all here to get what we want, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for it? So please be up front and honest about what you want, cause life is too short for crappy sex. I also like playing out other people's fantasies such as role playing or positions if that's your thing. I also have a guilty pleasure of just enjoying a nude make out where at best we are covered by a blanket and our body heat. There's just something about that simplicity of nudity and being face to face, skin on skin I like. After all, we are all here to get what we want, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for it? So be up front and honest about what you want, cause life is too short for crappy sexual endeavors.

My Ideal Person Someone who is quiet and discrete. Perhaps some friends with benefits and I prefer someone who could host. I have religious roommates who don't know I'm sexually active and you don't want to hear their lecture on sex before marriage. I just think that shouldn't be part of the after sex time. However I would not rule out something like sex in a semi public place such as the beach or sharing the cost of a place somewhere.

As for expereince, I am open to most ideas and prefer to take my time and please the other person with what they want and am always open to new things and I don't mind teaching at all. Who says a little hands on education is a bad thing? After all, we are all here to get what we want, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for it? So please be up front and honest about what you want, cause life is too short for crappy sex.

I also like playing out other people's fantasies such as role playing or positions if that's your thing. I also have a guilty pleasure of just enjoying a nude make out where at best we are covered by a blanket and our body heat. There's just something about that simplicity of nudity and being face to face, skin on skin I like. After all, we are all here to get what we want, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for it? So be up front and honest about what you want, cause life is too short for crappy sexual endeavors.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, On the top of my house, where we can be heard but not seen

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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