I am a fan of elegant cloths, beautiful women, clean lines, interesting peralities and natural wonders. I'm a kinky per and active in the kink community. That doesn't mean you have to be a masocist that loves brusing and crying but it does mean you should be adventurous. This profile focuses primarily on that aspect since it's a large part of my social life. I'm a kink innovator. Give me a seed of an idea for a scene and I'll throw out ideas to make it better. It will get more and more extreme till I cross the line to impossible to do safely or just ridiculousness. Hmm, you like bicycles, I wonder how I can use that in a scene? I'm a jack of all trades. I'm an outdoorsman that doesn't get out enough. I love exercise but only when its doing something fun or productive. I'm the type of friend that you can call up to help you move, even if its been 2 years since I last saw you. I'm a bit of an introvert but force myself out regularly. I'm experimental, creative when inspired, and mostly optimistic. I'm a quiet per. I'm smart but not brilliant. What I don't know is usually from a lack of interest rather than a lack of ability to learn. I'm not sadist or masochist though I say I'm a sadist to a masochist. I enjoy giving pain if it's what my partner likes. I can take some too but mostly just enough to excite the senses. I can appreciate big purple bruises only when I make them but I find mascara running from tears unattractive. I always love rope marks. I've really gotten into rope play, for many reas I'm in love with it but I'm not a one hit wonder. I take my fetish list seriously so if you want to know what I'm interested in that's the place to look. I think I only have one or two non fetishes on it. I have a few toys I'd like to use more often, canes, a paddle, even my Hitachi doesn't get enough use. I love attention from attractive women, so much so that I have to be careful that my judgment isn't impaired by it. What I'm looking for: I guess, the biggest thing I'm looking for right now is a relationship, more than an occasional play or sex partner. No, I don't expect to jump strait into a long term relationship but I'd like it to be at least a possibility with any additional partners. I'm a romantic per and spent significant amount of time thinking of little ways to show my affection. At the moment I consider myself non-monogamist. I don't say poly because I don't seek love in every relationship I have. Some are based on sex, some are kink play, Some more serious. I consider myself capable of a monogamist relationship but don't start a relationship with me expecting it.

My Ideal Person In general I like women that are self sufficient. I prefer my company to be wanted rather than needed. I am sensitive to smell, so no smokers unless I can't smell it on you, that includes pot. I'm a very sexual person so I like my partners to be as well. I'm attracted to height/weight proportionate women but if you're not it doesn't mean we can't be friends

Couples:
I list couples as being something I’m looking for because I don’t mind if the woman I’m with is in a relationship. It doesn'’t mean I’m by-sexual. If I get involved with a couple it will be primarily with the female member with the possibility of an occasional 3 some if the mood arises.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We take a long hike to the top of a mountain in the forest at
night. At the top of the mountain we find a clearing where
you can see the whole sky. I put a blanket on a large flat rock
and lay down on my back. She straddles me. Her shirt is a button
up type but opened so it flutters slightly in the wind. She's
wearing a skirt so I can't see every thing but I sure
can feel it. The backdrop behind her half naked body is the
sky bright and alive with the billions of stars you can't
see in the city. The only sounds we hear are our own and the
forest. We feel that we are the only 2 people in the universe.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage, Rope bondage & suspension

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, most celebrities aren't real enough for me to fantasize
about. The people I fantasize about wile masturbating
are real people I've met and talked to or seen at a club.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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