I'm a happily married man who's married to a sex fiend who has no problems with me having intimate buddies. I'd like to meet fun, intelligent humorous women who are great to be around with or without sex (sex just isn't fun if ya can't have fun without it). Discreetness is important (not to keep it from my wife, just from everyone else who doesn't "get" this kind of thing!). I'm a gentle, honest, and considerate person who would never do anything to demean anyone..I'm looking out for your wishes, not just mine. And beauty is from within...a warm smile trumps anything! My wife and I swing on occasion (not a lot, and always safe!), so who knows what options that could open up too?

My Ideal Person Fun, intelligence, and a sense of humour are the key elements I seek. Sexiness is an obvious one too...but how can you really describe what that is in demographics? A person can have all the right 'checkmarks' and still be a dud, or the unexpected person can just be the hottest thing.