Standard Members Can Contact - 49 yr old Gentleman who truly enjoys company of Women. I am charming, confident, humorous, intelligent, witty, love laughing, discovery, giving and getting butterflies in stomach, but I can be firm, authorative, demanding, with an aggressive imagination when mutually called upon. Experienced at being human (i.e. Grown Man) who is caring and very available emotionally. I have no fear of my own feelings and sharing them - Passionate about the people in my life and anything I do.

My Ideal Person Zaftig Female - who truly enjoys the company of confident and loving Man. She's not afraid to be herself. She can be confident and yet take direction when she knows her side of passion. She should be, intelligent, witty, love laughing and new discovery. Get's butterflies in her stomach when challenged, or while just holding hands. She loves to step off into adventure but appriciates a quite "Movie Night" as well. There is a perfect and beautiful quality in a natural Male+Female relationship. Yes - hot creative sex, but also the intimacy of "knowing" each other. This can make a simple conversation or just hanging out as exciting as any sex.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
EW&Fire, Hendrix, L Loveit, P DeSoul, B Rait, A Mosiet,
Marley, Doors, S Garden

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Favorite fantasy as well as memory. I was at a business cocktail
function a few years back, I was introduced to a very lovely,
rubenisque, mature woman in her 60's who was in town
from another office. She was quite busty and was wearing
a very "showy" dress for her cleavage. When
I was introduced I was absolutely smitten with here and
felt my face even go flush. <br><br>
I tried to regain composure and intro myself, but found
myself actually trembling and voice cracking LOL. She
smiled and looked me right in the eyes as she held my hand
in a hand shake and said how happy she was to meet me. But the
way she said it and held my hand I thought there was more to
it. <br><br>
Later on in the party I made conversation with her, I was
working as hard as I could to make her laugh, feel at ease
with me. That led to offering to show her around the town
some, so we left the party to a very beautiful place on the
bay and watched the moon and ships. While sitting there
I told her I found here appealing and quite honestly very
sexy! <br><br>
We started kissing and we were both enjoying that much.
She stopped kissing me and asked if anything was wrong?
She said because she had notice me politely stealing glances
at her cleavage all night and I had not made any attempt to
feel her breast. <br><br>
My heart jumped out of my chest. I said to her that I didn't
want to come off over anxious; she blushed and told me that
it wouldn't be at all. We began kissing again and I was
in heaven filling my hands with her ample soft breast. She
began moaning those soft, deep, whisper like sighs, we
became very hot so I offered to take her to my house. <br><br>
Her room was closer and she offered that we could go there.
As we drove I could tell that she was very nervous, and thinking
about something. I asked what was on her mind. After some
coaxing, she told me that she had been single for a few years
and had not been with a man and certainly not one younger.
She was very self conscious about how she looked and that
she may be too "old and fat", as she put it, for
me. <br><br>
I had to laugh, which she first thought was cruel, until
I explained to her that her maturity and body was EXACTLY
what made me so attracted to her in the first place. Then
in the short time we got to know each other the fact that she
was indeed a smart, sweet, and sexy woman, only made me want
her more. <br><br>
She also said she was very nervous about what to do, say and
act when we got to the room. I asked her if she really believed
that I found her desirable, she said "yes I do",
I asked what she thought of me as a person, she said "I
have to believe you are a good man"(earlier we talked
about family, and razing kids)then I made a suggestion.
<br><br>
I told her to let me be in charge, let me do all the talking,
and let me tell her what to do, so that we can both enjoy this
evening... I promised that she would enjoy my company,
and that if I made any suggestion she didn't like, she could tell me so right away, but I reminded her
there was absolutely no pleasure for me if we were doing
something that she didn't find enjoyable as well.
<br><br>
Damn I didn't realize I was typing this much - got carried
away in the memories - well if your that interested let me
know I'll finish it! LOL

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Chaka Khan

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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