We have been doing this a long time! 10 years actually. We want what we want and we will not be swayed otherwise. So, here it is in all its glory, so don't write us if you don't "qualify". Period. She likes to lay it all out there so there are no mistakes on understanding. (Be afraid...be very afraid.) 1a. We like separate rooms. Same room is fine, but if it comes up that someone wants to move and you have a problem with it at that moment...we're leaving. Yes, really. 1b. She is BI-SELECTIVE. Translation: She can be "Bi" with the right woman if she is attracted to her. Don't ask all night if you are her "type". This is irritating. She'll make a move if you are. Trust me, you'll know! 2. NO NEWBIES. For those who don't know what this means I will translate: NO NEW PEOPLE WHO ARE NEW TO THIS LIFESTYLE. Yes, that means you who have "even been doing this for a year or two?". We will consider 3-5 to be a pretty good limit. In our experience you have GOT to get some good AND bad experiences under your belt before you can go sit at the adult table. Otherwise, you need to hang out at the die table for a little while longer. Trust me...you'll thanks us later. 3. She is turned OFF by men who are NOT circumcised. It's a preference. Deal with it fellas. You have this long. 4. He has a very large dick. by large I mean he is about 6 3/4" and has very thick girth of 5 1/2". If you want anal you had better make sure HOW much and HOW bad you want it. 5. We have discovered that SHE is very allergic to certain things such as certain soaps and certain lubes on condoms. She instantly swells when this happens and then the fun is over. We would like to bring our own (if that is fair to say) and we'll bring them in a sealed box if you're the paranoid type. We can discuss more if you're interested later. 6. Drama queens and Karma Kings will be banished on sight. We too know what it's like to be burned. Therefore, you shall no longer be known as our AFF BFF. (Said in a very bad Old English accent) 7. HE would like someone to play with "on the side" (with permission from you of course and if necessary). As the name states FWB FIRST! Nothing more. Period. 8. We both have a different style of fucking. He is the submissive/tell him what you want and he'll do it/fuck you and eat you *as long as it takes* til you cum - type. She is the aggressive/throw around/tear your clothes off/suck your cock til you scream like a girl/marathon sex til you cum - type. He's kinda quiet while she's kind of a screamer. Please move along...there's nothing to see here. 9. We can't drop everything when you want to see us. We have special needs s and there is a process to our dates/evenings/nights. We have to plan...we have to. **Our separate dates are different. We can discuss that later if you're interested. 10. If you are a single woman - I am totally fine with you fucking my husband. There have been many who have. I have been fine with them too. In fact, I have watched most of them do it! There have been occasional times where I have let him go on "dates" to dinner, the bar, sex store, and wouldn't have a problem with you going to the club if I felt comfortable with you two together. Just keep in mind: IT'S ME YOU HAVE TO IMPRESS FIRST. I HAVE TO BE OKAY WITH YOU. I HAVE TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH YOU. (I think that's fair, don't you??) I HAVE TO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LEAVE AND YOU ARE WITH HIM THAT YOU AREN'T A SERIAL KILLER, A THIEF, OR RIDDEN WITH STD's. I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH WHETHER OR NOT HE'S COMING HOME...I KNOW HE WILL.

My Ideal Person I think we've said it all...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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