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rm_Despot 73 / M
"Spanker looking for spankees. LI, NY"
Long Island, New York, United States
 
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: March 1, 1998

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rm_Despot 73/M
Long Island, New York
Introduction
I am a Str8 Dom and like spanking all types of people including str8, gay, female, male, couples, etc. and also like intimate touching, fingering and anal play. That is, I do the fingering, touching, etc. All done safely, of course. I am happy to use any implements you may have on hand including paddles, brushes, dildo's, enema's etc. Except for occasionally using my belt I only use the your implements. I find this to be hygienically safer and it immediately lets me know your real limits. In other words, if you don't supply a dildo, I automatically know not to use one. When meeting new people, it's a great way to set the limits. All severity of discipline I use are based on your limits, although I will push that boundary sometimes. I always start with a warm up and build from there. If you want something done or not... it's best to let me know beforehand and in a different settiing, like this one. Once I start, there isn't much you can say to change my mind. I expect my subs to be totally obedient and subservient. I expect you to be totally candid with your needs. I cannot host. despot999 at ya. As a Standard member I cannot usually see your profile or your email address. Therefore you will have to contact me.

My Ideal Person Sub male, female or couple who need real hard otk, paddle, strap etc. Spankings should be painful and unending. I don't have a light touch or sypathy for your pain. I cannot host. You must have a place for us to play.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 73 / male
  • Long Island, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: February 11, 1951
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: despot999 at ya...
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel