If you want to talk, reach out, keep reading for contact details. Take a chance, who know we might click. If I were to describe my perfect playfriend(s) it would go something like this: respectful, trustworthy, discreet, open minded, a kinky tilt to desires, and intelligent. There must be chemistry between our peralities and intellects, not just a physical attraction. No where in my description of a playfriend do I specify necessary physical attributes nor do they play a huge role in the equation. I don't care what colour, shape, or size you are if the other important pieces are there. And yes, as my profile states I am married and yes, I am doing this discreetly. As a result, my need for discretion is absolute. I would love to play during the day and early evening, in either circumstance I am unable to entertain "friends" at home. If you are a lady or a couple and like what you've read so far, then I'd love to talk more. Get to know each other, get comfortable with you and then we could perhaps get together for a coffee or something of the like. I'm not a hard body by any means, I'm an average mid forties guy that sits at desk. I am who I am. And that is someone that enjoys sex and all the variations that are possible so long as it fits within our collective comfort level. If you've read this far and haven't gone back to your search results to read another profile, send me a message and see what happens. Who knows, maybe we'll find the chemistry that will allow us to enjoy each others company while wearing nothing but our smiles.

My Ideal Person You should be real, not just here for a lark or to amuse yourself online. You should be able to communicate, to carry on a conversation. Afterall this should be a friendship as well. Not that I want to be your best friend, but if you can't be comfortable together then the "friendship" isn't going to work. And be open, if we don't know what each other wants or needs from the friendship it's going to fail eventually.
I'm not interested in people playing games, I would really like to physically meet people if we click, and hopefully find ourselves wearing nothing but a smile. To that end I have a couple of housekeeping things that I want to mention. If you accept a friend network invite from me I'm going to assume that you are interested in talking, then meeting, then playing if the chemistry is there. If that's not what you would like to do then please don't accept it. The same applies if I send you a message, I would appreciate the courtesy of a reply even if you're not interested. And particularly if you are.

Maybe this is a little too harsh and up front. I guess I'll see. There must be friendship candidates out there, it's just a matter of finding them.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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