please note, I'm not interested in endless e-mail chitchat. After a few e-mails I prefer to catch up and see if there is something real rather than to live in an Illusion. Your heart is free have the courage to follow it ☆☆Introduction☆☆ I have been recently taking a hiatus, I am slowly regaining the composure to recomence my search but as yet realise I am not in the correct head space to be actively searching. I have taken a step back to get myself together. I have been happily just enjoying my frends and socialising with my friends for the moment. I'm still heading out and about at kink events, and open still to making new friends and if anything more turns up well and good but am not actively seeking at the moment. To start with I need that instant erotic magnetic attraction and though I am not obsessed with body image or anything, looks do count. The Dom I will find one day may not be classically good looking but will exhibit an aura that fascinates me and compels me to be theirs. Once that is found the semantics of how they wish to be served can then be discussed and soft and hard limits negotiated. My greatest pleasure will be in pleasing the one I serve....am on a journey to find myself in the hope i'll be ready for mr right

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ronan, thedoor, led zeplin, the cars, u2, five for fighting, enrique,
shania, rasmas

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
i recently read a post regarding a service fantasy a Dom
had and it brought to mind a fantasy I used to discuss with
past Doms(will write in the singular now as each one has
contributed to the growth of this fantasy) was having me
naked at a play party lying at his feet like his pet. We often
expanded on this to include my serving him and his guests,
my being tied exposed so that my genitals were widely displayed
to all, and at his discretion others were welcome to touch
probe, poke, pinch, caress, fuck or fist. Other variation
include my being suspended or bound to objects such as over
chairs, across a horse, over a fence rail, face down on a
bed while gagged and blindfolded while he allowed me to
be used by others at his discretion. There would have to
be some ground rules for the guests to agree to, for example,
touching anywhere permitted, but pain or penetration
only if requested and approved by him. He would be in the
position of protector, humiliator as well as a "spotter"
at all times to make sure the rules were being followed,
and that I wasn’t starting to freak out or had had enough.
We have also discussed my being taken to a swingers club
and tied to a bed for a free for all again with him watching
on to keep me safe and ensure rules were followed. Other
scenarios include prior to being put to use at serving of
drinks and nibbles to his guests at a party, my being deprived
of site and sound, and fucked by his chosen guests while
he looks on hearing my every whimper, moan and protest,
and when I seem to have had enough forcing me to take even
more by fucking me himself. Then made to attend to all his
guest not knowing who had just had me, sometime being given
an opportunity to freshen up before hand other times to
be left soiled from the experience so I continued to look
and feel like a used whore.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
i fantasise about the hot tube sceen in pretty women but
i temp richard geer into joining me rather than singing
along to that damn disc man

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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