no1singlegirl69 47 / F
"another kink in the road and the journey starts again"
Gold coast, Queensland, Australia
 
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no1singlegirl69 47/F
Gold coast, Queensland , Australia
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Introduction
please note, I'm not interested in endless e-mail chitchat. After a few e-mails I prefer to catch up and see if there is something real rather than to live in an Illusion.
Your heart is free have the courage to follow it
☆☆Introduction☆☆
I have been recently taking a hiatus, I am slowly regaining the composure to recomence my search but as yet realise I am not in the correct head space to be actively searching. I have taken a step back to get myself together. I have been happily just enjoying my frends and socialising with my friends for the moment. I'm still heading out and about at kink events, and open still to making new friends and if anything more turns up well and good but am not actively seeking at the moment.
To start with I need that instant erotic magnetic attraction and though I am not obsessed with body image or anything, looks do count. The Dom I will find one day may not be classically good looking but will exhibit an aura that fascinates me and compels me to be theirs. Once that is found the semantics of how they wish to be served can then be discussed and soft and hard limits negotiated. My greatest pleasure will be in pleasing the one I serve....am on a journey to find myself in the hope i'll be ready for mr right

My Ideal Person magnetic,caring guy for fun and friendship,willing to explore the full concept of D/s relationship and hopefully some great sex with vanilla side of life maintained as well.Must have a genuine interest in the BDSM scene
☆☆My Needs☆☆
To start with I need that instant erotic magnetic attraction and though I am not obsessed with body image or anything, looks do count. The Dom I will find one day may not be classically good looking but will exhibit an aura that fascinates me and compels me to be theirs. Once that is found the semantics of how they wish to be served can then be discussed and soft and hard limits negotiated. To this day most try and tell me I am not a true submissive and I have often felt offended by this, but knowing that within myself lies a true submissive waiting for the right Dom to tame me now allows me to be ok with that..
When He has found me I know that a balance will be met, the balance that I strive to find and have often doubted I would, He will know me well enough to know when to reel me in and pull me back to his side but allows me the freedom to be who I am. My greatest pleasure will be in pleasing the one I serve...am on a journey to find myself in the hope i'll be ready for Mr Right

☆☆Philosophy☆☆
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's learning to dance in the rain. That is my current prospective on life and am getting a little wet but learning the rythme.

☆☆Some rules to live by☆☆
Treat each other with the greatest respect. Nurture one another every chance you get and re-member that it is a beautiful game. Play well together.

☆☆The Game Plan☆☆
Yes I need to be more careful of who I share myself emotionally with in the future.It seems I prefer my interactions on levels more than just commander and commanded. Those that nurture the mind and spirit and provide a warm satisfaction because of the bond between them.
I guess I have spent to much time taking personally what others have thought but now never rarely let it affected me what people think..
But no matter what the future brings, I am in charge of my happiness, and it can come in many different forms. I’m determined to enjoy what life has to offer, which is freeing in itself, exploring whatever and whoever comes my way, enjoying the adventure as part of discovering me. Life is for enjoying and I hope to find my dream partner one day(magnetic,caring guy for fun and friendship,willing to explore the full concept of D/s relationship and hopefully some great sex with vanilla side of life maintained as well.YEP I KNOW HIGH EXPECTATIONS LObut refuse to stay stagnant in the time being. But as I find myself at this time with no one I wish to submit to so am presently exploring other aspects of play till I feel I have found someone whom I feel deservers my devotion and will cherish the gift of my submission.So until then beware world this brat is foot loose and fancy free and running amock.....
Do what makes you happy is the key and to hell with those who don't like it

☆☆The innner me☆☆
I’m not into pain more the sensual side of play but that being said in the right zone can accept and enjoy quiet a bit …... never thought I had masochistic tendencies lol.. When? More with whom I think now I am coming to realize it’s the chemistry which flows through me and means I can handle a lot of pain without problem. I loose all focus on the pain as I’m taken to that sublime place. This to me is very sexual and those that don’t believe sex is part of BDSM in my mind have got it wrong cause to me it all leads to each other and I enjoy getting someone wet or hard, sometimes baring flesh, sometime intimate touches, it takes it all in. Being able to see to into who they really are and feel them want me. Have them take my mind to places never imagined; it feels good to give up that control, power exchange. I’ll just have to watch to ensure it’s not getting addictive.

I’m no longer scared of my sexuality and refuse to be made ashamed of it any more. I have spent some time wondering why, it is I do what I do and like what I like. I have finally came to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter it would be like wondering why I have ten fingers and ten toes it’s how I was meant to be, social conditioning and life experiences may or may not of been factors but I am me and was probably born this way. No the vanilla world doesn't get us. I now have accepted and come to understand that it's ok to be this way, and I should just enjoy this journey of self discovery without the anx, I believe BDSM is not a game though I certainly always ensure I enjoy myself, we are all in this lifestyle as we find joy, acceptance and fun within its realms I also believe within finding my fun I avoid taking my fun at others expense and believe in being truthful with myself and others, strongly avoiding causing any hurt or harm to anyone. Sometimes, you need the pain to learn the lesson. Sometimes, you get the pain anyway, even once you've learnt. And sometimes, you just have to accept that you will be sad to your core for a very long time, but there is nothing to be done about it, except keep breathing and keep moving.I'm aware there will be ups and there will be downs but I've spent most of my life in vanilla relationships and always felt there was something lacking now I restart my path to find me.
Love to get to know who I am and who I’m with is my quest.

☆☆ME☆☆
To all intents and purpose I am prodominately a hedonist, and make no apologies that i enjoy the giving and recieving of pleasure in all its forms.You will find me eclectic, funny, erudite, interesting to talk too, with few inhibitions and fun to spend time with, I admittedly enjoy pushing boundaries and this may peeve some people but is always done in good fun and respectfully. Life is for living and enjoying.

If you are married or in any way shape or form part of a cpl do not waste my time and yours by messaging me, thanx
Warning: I am not into indiscriminate meets and fucks, if I decide to meet you it's because you have sparked my interest and I would like to know you more

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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ronan, thedoor, led zeplin, the cars, u2, five for fighting, enrique,
shania, rasmas

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
i recently read a post regarding a service fantasy a Dom
had and it brought to mind a fantasy I used to discuss with
past Doms(will write in the singular now as each one has
contributed to the growth of this fantasy) was having me
naked at a play party lying at his feet like his pet. We often
expanded on this to include my serving him and his guests,
my being tied exposed so that my genitals were widely displayed
to all, and at his discretion others were welcome to touch
probe, poke, pinch, caress, fuck or fist. Other variation
include my being suspended or bound to objects such as over
chairs, across a horse, over a fence rail, face down on a
bed while gagged and blindfolded while he allowed me to
be used by others at his discretion. There would have to
be some ground rules for the guests to agree to, for example,
touching anywhere permitted, but pain or penetration
only if requested and approved by him. He would be in the
position of protector, humiliator as well as a "spotter"
at all times to make sure the rules were being followed,
and that I wasnt starting to freak out or had had enough.
We have also discussed my being taken to a swingers club
and tied to a bed for a free for all again with him watching
on to keep me safe and ensure rules were followed. Other
scenarios include prior to being put to use at serving of
drinks and nibbles to his guests at a party, my being deprived
of site and sound, and fucked by his chosen guests while
he looks on hearing my every whimper, moan and protest,
and when I seem to have had enough forcing me to take even
more by fucking me himself. Then made to attend to all his
guest not knowing who had just had me, sometime being given
an opportunity to freshen up before hand other times to
be left soiled from the experience so I continued to look
and feel like a used whore.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
i fantasise about the hot tube sceen in pretty women but
i temp richard geer into joining me rather than singing
along to that damn disc man

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 47 / female
  • Gold coast, Queensland, Australia
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: July 23, 1970
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 157-160 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Current college student
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
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