mr.relaxed 49 / 44 / C
"Looking for a lady who loves sex, and loves to laugh..."
San Marcos, California, United States
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Member Since: February 6, 1999

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mr.relaxed 49/C
San Marcos, California
I have an awesome wife... but with one tiny little issue: she doesn't enjoy sex. To her credit, she does understand how this makes me feel, and has given me her blessing to find someone to help satisfy my sexual needs. I know it sounds like BS... but it's truly not.

I'm sure I just lost some of you, but with that out of the way, let's see if what I'm looking for is what you might be looking for as well.

I'm not a supermodel, but I'm not exactly obese either (yes, that really is me in the picture). I do have certain talents to offer a lady however. I am rather proud of my oral skills. Ever had a 30 minute orgasm? 60 minute? If you enjoy receiving oral sex... you will NOT be disappointed.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who not only enjoys sex, but can carry on a conversation on any number of topics... and someone who is definitely not afraid to laugh! Sex just isn't as fun when the people are deadly serious. I've done the wham, bam, thank you ma'am thing in the past. It's just not as enjoyable to me as being with someone who I can connect with and get to know a bit.

I'm definitely not hung up on body type... I like a woman for who she is, not her measurements or her dress size. From petite to zaftig... if the chemistry is there, good times are there for the taking!

I do not really have any "set" views about what I want. Long term, short term... friend, acquaintance, sex partner... what are you looking for? At the end of the day, I will always be going home to my wife... as long as you are comfortable with that... the sky is the limit.

If you are looking for a vacuous, chiseled underwear model who is out the door as soon as he cums... I'm probably not the guy for you. If on the other hand you are looking for someone to share a few hours with, have some great sex with, someone who can still stimulate your mind in addition to your genitals... I just might be the one for you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, The Art of Noise, 80's music

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 49/44 / Couple (man/woman)
  • San Marcos, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Straight
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Birthdate: November 12, 1968 July 14, 1973
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm 5 ft 4 in
Body Type: A little extra padding BBW
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: BA/BS (4 years college) Some college
Occupation: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 44 / 100 DD (E, if no DD)