Mature African American male with unassuming, quiet public persona. Am not a fitness nut but I do keep my self in reasonable condition and good health. I prefer the subdued to the raucous, in music, the arts and the environment. My public persona is that of a conservative, charcoal grey suited, white shirt and tie individual who prefers the background and who possesses an unaggresive nature but high degree of imagination in all matters of erotica. I love fine dining, good wine, and good music of many types, classsical, jazz and folk. In a lady, prefer one who is mature in all respects, 50 and over (the more mature, the better) who loves style, who sometimes enjoys taking the lead and who understands that anything is acceptable as long as it meets the standards of good taste. I find the the subtle, delicate but titillating morsels of erotica can heighten interest and pleasure in almost every instance, and therefore prefer giving my lady oral affection. At the same time do not require reciprocity, only if she wishes it. Also, while of course I prefer a genuine lady, I would not object to her receiving standard affection from another as long as he is in good health. Am a firm believer in good health and discretion.

My Ideal Person Seeking mature female interested in receiving oral forms of love. She should possess imagination and curiosity, and an interest in seeing how far into different roles she and I may go in exploration of her desires. Experimenting with changing roles, for example, would perhaps heighten excitement and desire in both of us. Body size not material as long as she comports herself with some sense of style and grace. Much more important is her taste for exploration of various expressions of erotic love- making and ability and jnterest in intelligent conversation. It would be a bonus if she likes to be touched sensually, and generally likes having her body pampered, including being given baths with fragrant scents, massages in her favorite oils and lotions and special pedicures. Principally, I am seeking a lady who desires from me oral love and oral attention in many ways.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Singers Jessye Norman, Gladys Knight, Tina Turner, poet
Maya Angelou and the late Eartha Kitt.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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