I am 5'5" 135lbs blondish/brown hair, mid-fifties, pretty good shape for my age, intelligent, fun loving, good sense of humor and am willing to do my best to please the right guy. My husband was able to satisfy me well enough in the past. My husband's cock,(6"L x2"d) is nice but not huge, average but very adequate. But now his cock doesn't work that well any longer and the blue pill does not work for him. So our sex life has been, hit and miss for a few years (missing most of the time) as we have only do it once or twice a month if lucky. :( My husband and I will be winter in Cape Coral and my husband came up with the idea that maybe he could find a younger guy to fill in for him FULL time while we are in Florida so he wouldn’t feel so bad about depriving me of the passionate sex we used to have,while we are there. [bling 43054] My love thinks I deserve a really good time with a nice guy who will fill to capacity and stretch me to the limit and have me crying out with pleasure, take my breath away, fill me with his cum, and leave me panting but with a smile on my face. [bling 96050] My first reaction to this was that, "he must be crazy", but the more I thought about it, maybe, with the right guy, it would be a fun, exhilarating and satisfying experience for me, something I haven’t had in a long time. >:) but only if the guy is young, nice, fit, and has a really long thick cock. /:> [bling 60242] He has said he wants to help find the right guy to be with me so I am letting him with my help. What I would like, is to find a tall young, athletic, very well hung guy with a lot of stamina who can do me more than once a night the way my husband did with me but can't anymore. ;) That would be amazing but I have my doubts that there is such a per. I must be attracted to my potential lover to do this, so it will be up to him to get me excited about being with him when we meet, You must be willing to get to know me/us first (maybe lunch then drinks dinner dancing whatever.) [bling 54938] I hope you understand as again, I am not a slut or and am not going to jump into this with just anyone. I want my time with my lover to be a truly good experience that will continue to get better each time we're together. ^:-J[bling 94547] Although this would be my first experience with someone who has a really big cock. I have given birth to three ren (grown) and although my pussy is still tight I am confident if it could handle giving birth it should handle virtually any size of cock. [bling 97121] My husband’s preference is that I take a a black man as my lover. I have to admit it intrigues me, I have never had sex with a black man before. I have wondered if what the saying, "once you go black" is true and if you are as big as they say and as good in bed. [bling 211781] But, I would be just as happy if my lover was a young, good looking, white guy with a huge cock as well. As long as you can make me cum that's all that matters for me. I need a man with stamina, passion who will take me, dominate me and use me for his pleasure. [bling 104459] I hope to do it with my lover on regular basis at least three times a week or more and who will give me such intense pleasure that I would be willing to do anything, anywhere, anytime as often as he wants to please him while we are together. I enjoy 69, giving and receiving oral, and enjoy having sex in virtually any position,[bling 55658] [bling 62182] [bling 64358] [bling 63084] [bling 62702] [bling 66988][bling 78265][bling 78267][bling 62704] [bling 64365] including "doggy style". [bling 72775] I am looking forward to sucking your cock, or you fucking my mouth (it's up to you) and your cumming in my mouth. I love that part of a blow job. [bling 111296][bling 97137] As a bonus I promise I will always swallow your load, anything else would be disrespectful (and wasteful).:-SS [bling 109287] I have never done anal but if you can make me long to feel you inside me, I am open to let you be the first to have my anal cherry, if you want it, as a special gift just for you to remember me by.:X I prefer bareback, (but am OK with a condom when necessary) as I prefer to feel my lover to cum in me (thus the need for you to be D/Free). [bling 96069] Not into kink, hard drugs, or pain (except that of a big cock being thrust into me) Don't mind the use of words like fuck, pussy, cock, etc. but not degrading words like , slut, cunt, and the like (as I am lady not a or slut). |-(d I may or may not want my husband around when we having sex it will depend on you and the situation but he doesn't want anything bad to happen to me. He and I are not interested in his participating or watching it will be just us. My husband has said he would like to see me on my knees blowing another man and swallowing his cum and to see his cum leaking out of me after i have been fucked senseless. So, maybe eventually, I will do it for him and let him watch but only if you are OK with it. /:> [bling 97454] I love my husband, we are very happy and have been married for many years and will be for many more. He is definitely not a wimpy cuckold type guy,nor is he the jealous type. He trusts me implicitly and I won’t break that trust. :X:-SS

My Ideal Person You should be between 30-40 yrs. old.

Being submissive I need a guy who will take the lead and tell me what he expects me to do and how he wants me to do it, to please him and make me his.

A guy with a big cock that is not only thick but at least 8-10+ inches or more long (longer is better and very thick would be a bonus).

Have a lot of stamina to be able to give me repeated workouts on a regular basis. (the more intense you make it for me the louder I seem to become or so I've been told, my husband calls me a screamer)

Definitely, must also be willing to go down on me!!!
Love a talented tongue.

Fun loving, with good sense of humor.

Prefer clean shaven, or well trimmed both face and balls.

Must have good hygiene and be disease free (very important).

"Please, no one night stands", I want you on a regular basis (friend with many benefits) actually, I will service you as often as you like. I am confident once you have sex with me, you'll want me over and over everyday and you won't ever want to end it.

In the end if and when I decide to end it, hope you will respect that. I have always had to end it with the lovers I've had. I seem to be the kind of women that sexually men can't get enough of, or so I've been told.

I always will try to please and make you happy if you do the same for me.
Are you up to it?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Being dominated in a strong but non violent way

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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