im a white female, i am bbw (size 20), like to laugh, i am not looking to meet for sex at all, i look at myself in the mirror and cant imagine anyone could see me as sexy, so yes, i know this is a sex site, but every other site is the same, im an old fashioned girl, but none of those old fashioned ways seem to matter anymore, just because we now have the internet, not all of us are looking for a quick leg over, irrespective of how the other per looks, etc. im not looking for that at all, thanks for reading Ok, update .... i have realised what i want in a man... i am looking for a gentleman, old school, romantic, who thinks so much of me that he wants to treat me like the best thing since sliced bread! he has to be caring , generous, thoughtful and can make me laugh, and doesnt give up at the drop of a hat!

My Ideal Person i like someone who can make me smile and laugh, who is single and clean shaven, i love long hair though, and who knows how to treat a lady, and not mcdonalds or kfc, as much as i love kfc! i have tried the nice girl routine, and i have also done the meet for sex stuff, so now, you need to want to get to know me first, im getting too old to be playin games, im gettin tired of guys who think they can tell me what i wanna hear, just to have sex with me, im past that stage of meeting for sex, i wont have sex on a first date, i would want a guy to want to see me again, for me, not so he can have a shag and move on to the next, my god, what happened to the past, being a gent, why does it seem that guys are only interested in meeting a woman just for sex? Seriously, it used to be that, if that was what he wanted, he went out and paid for it! now it seems, he seems to think, he can be on a site and expect it. and before you say i shouldnt be on this site, every site is the same these days, even the just friends sites. all im sayin is, i would love to meet a guy who likes me for me and would see me as wanting to look after me, not for what he can get. single white guys only, 40-56. i know im not page 3 material, im big, but im very loving too, to the right person. i do not want to meet a guy who does drugs, not even cannibis, i will not even meet someone who likes that. i know i smoke, but i truly cannot stand even the smell of cannibis, case closed. oh case opened again, you guys who message me, who are married, i truly dont want to go down that road again, im no prude, but hey, if you are married, then treat your wife, if she doesnt give you what you want, then leave, dont be looking to cheat on her, its just not fair on either of you!