*********There will be another update soon, so for those same individuals that keep looking at my profile over and over and over again,,,,,, you'll have something different to read, although I'm sure your not reading my prifile, and my pics won't change****UPDATE 07/30/2017**** Well, let me start by saying this is a new and updated profile. I'm looking for the BIGGER and better things in life, if you know what i mean? I'm not going to settle for less then what i want simply because your being polite. If you think your the best thing since sliced bread, if your arrogant, if your cocky, If your going to be rude and crude in your first liners then keep scrolling because i will call you on it. Not into younger men so if your in the age range 40 or below then keep going don't try to convince me your the best out there, trust me you might be good but not the best, there is always someone better at something, i think it may be worth the read As I have been a member on this site for a while now i have come to learn what i want and don't want. Let me start by giving a little back ground on myself. I am a 52 yr. old mother of two grown boys, I have a Two grands that are , in my opinion, the cutest rayS of sunshine that ever graced my heart. I have been re-evaluating my life, by that i mean what i do and don't want in it, and i have had to make some decisions. Hard ones, from the head not the heart,,,,,,, First one being that i want to be happy. regardless of what others think of me. I want someone in my life that WANTS to be there, not only when they are horny and have nothing else in their life to do. I want to be one of your first thoughts not an after thought.I want to be part of the plan, not a back up plan . i like to go places and do things and i don't want to have a time limit on it because you have a wife/life back at home waiting for you. i have had a complicated marriage which is now over and I'm divorced, but still remain friends, we have a family and they come first.. Now, What am I looking for? DON'T ask me if I like licked, DON'T ask me what i am wearing or if i shave. some things are best left for further conversations with the right ppl. sorry to be so blunt but some ppl just don't get it. And if your messaging because your horny at that moment and want to hook up to release some tension,,, keep scrolling because i don't do that, Well the name of this website is ADULTFRIEND FINDER...i am looking for friends, first and foremost, i would like to be able to get in touch with them for dinner once in a while or on a weekly basis, i get bored a lot, i like to text and chat also. if it leads to FWB that is a perk. I had a wonderful man in my life and we played. if you all know what that means, But that is over and i need to worry about myself not what could have been. I am looking for men and women, men i prefer you to be well endowed, nothing peral and the women be Bi. I am also looking for a LTR with a local female that is discrete, my family does not know about his side of my life and i want to keep it that way. I am a BBW so i do not expect the Barbie type, just ppl that are well kept up and clean. i am 3 D free,(Drugs, Disease and Drama,) and expect the same. I am honest, friendly and one hell of a flirt. oh and i also would like to find a local chocolate for regular meets also.... I have met my fair share of weirdos out there and i'm not judging, to each their own. with that being said no bi men, sorry just not my type. If you have anymore questions for me then just ask and i will answer them Warning: any institution using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects- you do not have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. if you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramification.

My Ideal Person HONEST, funny and a must have a sense of humor, like to flirt but not be vulgar.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have always wanted to do a MFM 3some with hung men. Either
white or black men will do.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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