Hi! I do hope you take the time to read through this, as I have tried to include as much relevant information as possible. Of course, though, if you have any questions, feel free to ask! I have included a photo of my face on here as well, as I know that it is an important part of attraction for a lot of people. If you recognize me, I'd prefer that you message me on here so that we can laugh about it rather than you possibly being weird around me any time you might see me. I'll also mention that, despite my profile, I am currently single (male) When I'm not into kink, I'm a graduate student at UI. I LOVE doing things with computers, being outside, and playing with people's pets. I've even been fortunate enough to be able to foster kittens with the IC Humane Society, which has been an exceptionally rewarding experience. I also like to cook and clean, and excepting the fact that I am slaving away night and day for my PhD, my dream job would be being a stay at home dad. I love eating different foods and I am very open to new experiences of any kind. I like to think that I'm pretty funny, but most of my friends would probably only grant that I'm a little funny. I love and care for all human beings, I always try to be kind, and would never treat somebody without respect and empathy, a stark contrast to my bedroom pera ;) I do say this, though, because even though I fulfill a dominant role that can sometimes involve cruelty, pain, or humiliation, I care for you as a human being, and would intentionally seek to hurt or humiliate you. The point of all of this is to have fun, right? So having said all that, my ideal partners would also be kind, respecting human beings who are looking to explore sex in a way that's safe and comfortable. When I am into kink, there is probably a bit more that's relevant. I'm 27 years old, 6'0", and about 190lbs. I'm don't have an olympian style build, but I would probably identify with a muscular build. I have blondish hair, and keep a pretty rocking beard that is moderately kept. Sexually, I identify as a dominant, and I have a huge range of kinks and fetishes. Top amongst these are humiliation/degradation, shaming, cum humiliation, general abuse, and bondage. I've also participated in pain, cuckolding, pet play, and limited big/little scenarios, all of which I did enjoy. The biggest thing for me, though, is simply creating that dom/sub scene and taking control of the situation. I would never impose my own fetishes on a submissive without their request, and am completely open to doing all or none of the above. Really, it all comes down to the fact that I just like to do kinky shit sometimes ;) I'll end by saying that I am a big proponent of aftercare, and I think that it is a really important part of the dom/sub bonding process. Especially after an intense scene, I like cuddling in a bed just like the rest of them!

My Ideal Person As for preferences for a partner, I am exceptionally open. I find myself attracted to almost all women I've met in one way or another, so chances are high that if you're a woman, I will feel attracted to you. In particular, though, I would say that I have a soft spot for larger women. I think that I would be very much into body shaming/pig humiliation, but only at the specific request of a submissive. I also find myself being really attracted to women who might not consider themselves traditionally attractive. I also have no problem with married women, though I would request that your partner knows about it whether they choose to be involved or not.

I should also address my feelings towards penises (independent of gender). I identify as straight, but have lately found myself being curious about being more flexible in that regard. Here, a submissive would be nice, but I am open to non-submissives as well. I don't have any first hand experiences (yet), but my presences here are a little more particular. For partners with dicks (sissies, trans, twinks, crossdressers, etc), I prefer feminine features with minimal body hair. Dressing, wigs, and chastity are a huge plus for me. I am willing to reciprocate, but would not bottom. I would also prefer somebody younger with less experience, as I think it would be more comfortable to explore this kind of thing together, but this isn't mandatory. I'll add as an exception to all of the above that, if I am involved with partners in a cuckolding situation, I would be happy to fuck the husband regardless. I don't have any experience with this either, but I think the act of humiliation would be more than enough to do it for me