heyluckystrike 62 / F
"Hi...ya'll! I live in North Carolina. .. I am attracted to a guy that that spends a little bit of time in the gym and SINGLE. ..NOT MARRIED or "separated"! !~~if your profile photo is not current ..then put a current photo up..mine are current~~me~~5'4"~~125lbs"
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heyluckystrike 62/F
Charlotte, North Carolina
I am genuine, and I am looking for a long term boyfriend. Are ya game?!!
Ok..first off everyone has sex...ya don't need to send me photos of you having sex with someone hoping to impress me...it is a total dealbreaker...so don't do it!
I am iso a "traditional " old fashioned relationship....just so ya know...and, I actually live in Pinehurst, NC.

.Ok...the black hair was a wig I used for Halloween!!!..no one under 50 yo plz!!..ok..I should put this out front and center. I am iso a "traditional/long-term relationship leading to something permanent. ..with one man.

I dont find an attraction to Black men, Asian, or Middle Eastern men....no offense meant..I just know what I want and like!~~if you are going to flirt with me, might be a good idea to contact me directly...I don't check notifications regularly...and I'm STRAIGHT!!~~not into women!!...whew!...got that outta the way..now, I need to go sit in my rockin chair!!....NOT!!

Guys....if you have not figured this out yet...conversation is FOREPLAY for a woman...you keep talking...too a point!

Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing. Women are picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appears to be benign issues. And men who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do.

But please, please just fuck me already. Honestly, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, FUCK ME. We've done dinner and drinks. We've gone dancing. We've cuddled and watched a movie. I'm wearing a low cut shirt and you've been staring at my breasts all night. Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck me.One way to get a woman to relax and get started in the right direction is to offer her a simple massage...even if it is just a neck/shoulder massage from behind, then once you have done a good job of that, slowly move your hands while u are still massaging her, down the front of her chest. Remember slow is the key word here and start massaging her breasts....you will have her collapsing at your feet begging for more, but you have to take your time and TEASE...we love the art of teasing!

When we do get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please fuck me. Trust me, I'm not going to just lie still - I'll get involved. But don't make me force your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a . We've been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time to move forward. Get on top of me. Don't make me get on top right out of the gate and start bobbing up and down on your cock like I'm practicing some crazy new aerobic yoga. Don't gently suck my nipples and then pull back when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want. It's not what WE want.

OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as complaining. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men:

1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask nicely if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like "I'm sorry - you just look so fucking delicious. I'll go slower." Otherwise, skillfully move forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well, and before long, you're both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on top of her, it's not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU'RE the man. Act like one.

2. Oh my fucking god, please learn to respect the clit. It's different for every woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers around her pussy like you're trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips against her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for your receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you need to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressure against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger and start jabbing at things. And if you really don't know what to do, ask her. Just ask. "How do you like it?". It's a simple question, and most women will answer straight out. If she's being all coy, ask "Do you like pressure? Is it sensitive?" The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you have never encountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner liked. not enough oral?...u stopped too soon!!..you forgot to push my legs back and start at my ass and lick all the way up without stopping and then land on my clit and do a gentle suck and then grab a whole mouthful of my pussy like you are putting a frozen juice pop in ur mouth..and then gently with keeping suction and suck..let up..keeping suction.and just keep doing that..along with breaks of everything else I mentioned.....I do NOT want to cum that way
ok, I'm gonna share something I don't think most are aware of regarding orgasms. There are two types..a clitoral orgasm (either with oral sex/masturbation or whatever) and then there is a vaginal orgasm, either achieved with fucking/dildos. A clitoral orgasm is very "surface" and typically a clit is way too sensitive too even be touched after a woman has cum. Whereas a vaginal orgasm happens very deep inside and can happen multiple times. Me~I don't even want to cum with oral sex...forget about it!!..BUT..the sad thing I am discovering is a LOT of women have never experienced a vaginal orgasm...I am told that women cum mostly with oral sex..

3.Women want to be "Taken"....we want you to take charge and be the director when it comes to sex. When the time is right, just "take" me..all women like to be taken...

Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there who want to "make love" every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. When a woman is bucking wildly against you, it's not because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your cock around her vagina like you're mixing a cake batter up there. It's because she wants you to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and fuck her harder.(and don't forget grabbing her by her hair and holding her down so she feels like she is being held down, THAT IS SOOOO HOT!!!) Don't be too afraid of what this means as far as gender equality goes..I still want to be penetrated like you are planning on fucking my throat from the inside out. And the slow gentle deep grind is also a favorite of mine

4. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her ("Really? Spanking? Won't it hurt?" - yes, it does. That's the fucking point). We know you've read Stuff and Maxim, and that's all those guy mags talk about in their "How to Please Her" sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there. You don't have to bend her over one knee and tell her she's a naughty girl and that going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women are less delicate than you think, so don't worry about breaking her hip.

5. It's OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with vibrating nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise. If you're banging a woman, and she's crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can't even manage a grunt, she's going to feel like an idiot. You don't have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how when you are watching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the guy kind of goes "Ah!", half grunt, half yell? That's HOT. Do that. Whisper our name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you're in missionary position. You don't have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she's going to get worried.

6. You're not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she's not obligated to choke on your dick. Don't skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman out, the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice it is. The length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full bush - you are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.

In recent memory, I've been fucked by a very aggressive, manly guy, and I've been... well, fucked is the wrong term here. I've been penetrated by a total and utter wuss.

Who am I going to run back to when I'm ready for my fill?

Manly McHardon, that's who !!..

And don't forget the hair!!!...hold us down by our hair and bite us and suck on our neck...that will have us melting in your hands!!

NOT LOOKING FOR A DISCREET RELATIONSHIP...read between the lines on what this implies

My Ideal Person: Obviously a physical attraction is important, but if I can't hold a conversation with someone for more than five minutes it doesn't matter how sexy they are...I appreciate an athletic build, lifts weights and is fit...ok guys, not lookin for Arnold Schwarzenegger...but I put time in at the gym and find the same type of physique attractive...also..forgot to mention. ..slow deep kissing is really something I can get lost in...and a total turn on!!

So I checked out some recommended clips and did some comparisons.
Here is what I gleamed from my research:

1. Even male porn stars seem to be severely deficient at cunnilingus; approaching the female bits as if they were going to electrocute their tongue or something. What's with the "dabbing" and biting? Ok, I'm sure there are some women out there with some fettish for that, but dude...really....not me and not any chick I know.

3. My friends were right. Only real lesbians know how to lick pussy. The only REAL cunnilingus I saw was by REAL lesbians in a porn made by and for Lesbians.
Damn....those chicks know how to eat pussy!!!!! Once again, however, this is how I know that, A)Being Gay is not a choice, becaise I'm definitely straight. Why? Because as good as that looked, and tempting as it is to go find me some really hot dike to lick me, it then made me shiver (in a bad way). All I kept thinking was "Why can't I find a man who can do that?" I mean, think of it this way....if you, a straight man, lives for a good blow job, would you be able to let a man do that to you just because he was he best cocksucker on the planet? No, you wouldn't....you want a woman to do it cause you are straight and you want to do other stuff too....to/with a woman. Well, the same applies here.

5. ADVICE: So MEN....please learn how to lick pussy. Watch some REAL lesbian porn and give it a try. You like a good blow job, right? Well....then return the favor damn it. Stop being afraid of the muff.....but don't dive in like you are bobbing for apples and start off gentle. Make sure you DO NOT BITE OR USE YOUR TEETH unless she has specifically asked for that. Lick it all....lick it like it's your favorite ice cream!!!! Chris Rock once said in one of his stand up specials that "there are 3 kinds of women; 1. Those who don't suck dick...do they still make you? Goodbye, see ya! 2. Those who give you just enough to get by....(he dabs the mic with his tongue and says: That enough for ya?) and 3. Women who like nothing better than to suck a dick. God bless every one of ya!" Well boys, you can flip that around for the female point of view and it applies exactly the same. If you don't fall into category number 3, you are petty much a useless lover IMO. So check yourselves....ladies, if you aren't giving decent head, you aren't likely to keep your man, and MEN, if you aren't truly giving a decent effort to slurp her snatch, and aren't making her cum.....well....time to re-evaluate and pray that one of the few men out there who DOES lick pussy well doesn't get to her. Cause if that happens, you'll be kicked to the curb like a football at the superbowl.
Something I should address here regarding eating pussy...if you really are not into it...if you are not primal about it...we can tell...when all you are doing is sucking on our clit like you are sucking the chrome off of a 57 Chevy and that's the only thing you are doing...we know it..tell us right up front..you are not really into eating pussy..don't fake it..we can tell.

If you are having a difficult time bringing your girl to an orgasm, it is probably one of three problems.

1.She masturbates too much and has "desensitized the clit.
2. MEDICATION!!~~~namely, anti-depressants.
3. She has body image issues and is not confident enough to relax and just let go!

okay..now for you guys!
Reasons a guy is unable to maintain hard-on
1. masturbates too much and desensitizes head of your cock!

C'mon guys, if ya know ur gonna get laid~lay off punchin the clown, ruffin the suspect or whatever ya wanna call it for about 5 days prior to sex with a woman. Your cock and woman will thank you for it!

2. Get plenty of rest, exhaustion will make ur cock say "forget about it"!

3. Lay off the porn a bit...seriously

I'm an old fashioned girl....I like the real thing and only the real thing will do. I want the whole body of a good man. Like the old Coca Cola commercial..."Ain't nothin' like the real thing , baby...ain't nothin' like the reeeaaal thing!"

So guys....we really do want to enjoy sex with you and have the best of intentions....but you gotta step up and do your part. The time has come for women to get ours! Now cowboy the fuck up and learn how to lick us like we've got the antidote to death or the fountain of youth in there.

Peace my brothers and sisters!
May you all get some good oral sex while you can!

1. Be Specific About What The Hell You Are Looking For
'I wanna fuck, hit me up if interested' Are you fucking kidding? Exactly what in the hell are you looking for? You wanna fuck you say. Well whooptie freakin doo. So does pretty much everyone else on the entire freaking planet. You guarantee to make me cum..yeah, you and about 8000 other men today posting have made the same promise. Posting a vague ass 8 word ad is just asking for a load of retarded respondents. What do you wanna fuck? You didn't say. Your ad could mean anything from a woman with a pulse to a fucking chicken in a wig and night coat. Specifics are a must.

2. Post More Than A Dick Pic (or several at different angles)
So you post a pic of your penis in 15 different angles, in different lighting situations and in sephia and black and white shots like its a fucking magazine spread and no face pic and you wonder why only gay men have responded. Well here's a news flash for you: Women aren't attracted to your big dick unless its attached to a hot body, and a nice face. Hell we'll take a slightly chubby guy if his face is worth something and he has all his teeth. And we know our tits don't mean shit if you don't like the body they are attached to. Only gay men get turned on by a picture of your dick taken after your last masturbatory excursion. Women need to know what the fuck that massive dick is attached to. You may have an awesome sized pecker but it don't mean a damn thing if your face is a fucking mess. Try posting a pic of your face and description of your dick. You may get a better response.

3. Be More Specific About What You Are Looking For.
'Looking for a woman' again is too vague. You thinking your short ass post is going to set off some butterfly effect wave of playboy bunnies beating down your email box is nuts. If you like waiffy, crackwhore looking chicks, say so. If you love BBWs, say so. If you would like a woman who doesn't mind you pulling her hair and smacking her ass while you finger her butthole, damn it say so. If you want a black woman say so. If you want a white woman, Latina woman, purple woman with red eyes...you get it, say so. If all you ask is that the person responding to your ad has a pulse then that is exactly what you will get, every and anything, and mostly what you probably don't want.

In conclusion, remember your ad on AdultFriendFinder is an ad selling you. If you don't market yourself right you won't get the response you want. If you don't exercise some patience and you aren't specific, you won't get the ultimate payoff. You'll get the cheap, watered down, bootleg version of what you were originally looking for and you'll still be horny, jacking off and unhappy.

Adding something new..and pretty profound in my opinion...so listen up peeps!!...If you are with someone and they are not treating you in the manner appropriate.. whether it is disrespect, physical abuse, emotional abuse...and you put up with it..well....THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU ALLOWING THIS PERSON TO DO THIS...IT'S NOT THEIR PROBLEM...IT'S YOURS!...KICK THEM TO THE CURB......BETTER YET,,,PUSH THEM OVER A CLIFF!!

Seriously ponder what I just said................mebbe don't pushem over a cliff...

My Ideal Person OK - I have been trying to meet a "nice" guy for quite a while now, using both traditional methods (set-ups through friends, the bar scene, work, etc.) and non-traditional, and have had abysmal results. By "nice", I don't mean a bible-thumping, republican, up-tight putz who could make a diamond out of a lump of coal planted firmly up his a-hole. I mean a guy who is capable of having a decent conversation that doesn't center around the size of his cock; who is aware of the world around him; who is respectful of people and animals; who makes me laugh; who parties like a rock star when he has the time; and who can fuck me like a champ after checking his hang-ups at the door. Someone with a brain. A sense of humor. A job. I'm a busy, successful, attractive woman and a great circle of friends. I have a life. What I don't have, however, is a lot of time to wade through a bunch of bullshit. If you just want to get laid, fine; just say that up front so I can move on. Don't make me waste my time exchanging e-mails for days...then you ask... what's the craziest sex you've ever had? 2) how often do you masturbate? 3) do you have a nice, clean ass, with clean ass odor? (I couldn't make that up) and 4) do you like oral? (DUH??!!?? WHO DOESN'T??) Apparently, no matter how pretty, sexy, funny, smart, successful, sweet, caring, interesting etc. I am, it all boils down to one thing: fucking.

btw...if u have not figgered out by now I have a wicked sense of humor...then I feel sorry for you..btw...My motto "One life...live it"

one more thing..I am reasonably "fit"...and l sling a bit of iron...I am not looking for "bodybuilder" types...but reasonably fit!

I am looking for an LTR/marriage...but...in the meantime...I am not gonna be a nun!
I am into old Ford Broncos...and vintage European motorcycles, kayaking, street hockey and trail running

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 62 / female
  • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: February 16, 1956
Travels to: katy, Texas, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
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Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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