Separated from my husband of almost 21yrs about 8mos ago and now I'm ready to figure out how to meet people again. This is very different than it was 20-something years ago! So, what am I looking for, or not looking for? I AM looking to meet new people. I would like to find new friends that could lead to a fwb thing. I would prefer to work into a real relationship though. I AM NOT looking to meet couples, boys young enough to be my , or men old enough to be my dad. Sorry guys, but no thanks. I'm quite sure you'll find someone else on here to meet your needs.🙂 I would like someone who is slightly more dominant in the bedroom. I'm kinda like the 40yo virgin, but I am open to learning some new things as long as they're not way out. I'd like to stretch my comfort zone a bit.

My Ideal Person My ideal man is single, separated, divorced, or a widower. I have a weakness for bald men in public service or current or separated military. He MUST be a gentleman, at least out of the bedroom😉. Patience, a sense of humor, and a positive outlook are also great! Confidence and self-respect are awesome too. A job is a must and a reasonable mode of transportation is very helpful. I would hope you'd want to meet in public first to see if we click and so I can make sure you're not a psycho. Hope you understand!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Done all these except the plane and coaster!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Food Play, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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