I am a gentleman with a quiet devilish side. I do my best to be thoughtful, respectful and considerate. While I'm not eye candy I think I'm reasonably handsome. And I do have a devilish smile. I'm uninhibited and comfortable in my skin. I'm insatiably curious (sexually and otherwise) - I take great pleasure in learning about my partners. I'm an educated professional in tech, with retirement on the horizon. I'm passionate about travel - I've been to ~50 countries and plan to go to many more. I read constantly, particularly history. I'm a life-long person who's developed a deep appreciation for cats. I love San Francisco and have spent my entire life near SF. Fantasies are usually a result of chemistry and what two (or more) people are into together. That said... I am a bit of a voyeur and exhibitionist and like (safely) incorporating that into play.

Min Idealperson I'm looking for light-hearted, fun partners who truly think of what we do as "play."

I'm attracted to and interested in a wide range of people. Curiosity, intelligence and playfulness are important. Body type and ethnicity are not.

I have a preference for ongoing, but occasional or one-time play is ok if that's what our schedules allow. Friendship is ideal but I'm not a "must be friends first" person - friendships take time to develop and I'm comfortable playing along the way.

I enjoy combining sex and kink, though I'm also happy to do one or the other. If you're curious about exploring, perhaps we should talk. I love helping people explore this side of themselves, including women whose partners who are not into kink or D/s.

I'm open to single, solo or couples playmates. When playing with couples I know that I am a guest and behave accordingly.

First meetings are usually over coffee or drinks to see if there's mutual spark and interest. I will play on a first meeting if the chemistry is right. Phone conversations or meetings at parties / events are also good options.

Berätta om en av dina sexuella favoritfantasier. Var inte blyg!:
I'm a bit of a voyeur / exhibitionist so / party
play is fun. I'm curious about sex in places where we
might get caught.

Vilken typ av sexuella aktiviteter gör dig kåt?:
Ge Oralsex, Få Oral Sex, Sadism, Leksaker (Vibratorer/Dildosar/osv.), Fetisch, Lätt bondage, Hård bondage, Stearin, Smiskning, Rollspel, Trekant, Gemenskap Onani, Voyeurism, Handbojor/Fjättror, Bröst/Bröstvårta, klämmor, osv., Ögonbindel, Läder, Massage

Vilka faktorer är viktigast för dig när du söker en sexpartner?:
Förmågan att vara diskret, Aptit på sex, Samtycker till ett sexuellt förhållande utan förpliktelser, Kreativitets/Kinkiness nivå, Litet av vardera

Har du någonsin fantiserat om att ha sex med en känd person? Vem? Vad är det med dom som får dig att bli upphetsad?:
Nope. Ok, maybe Shakira. :-)

Har du någonsin haft cybersex?:
Jag har provat det, men det är inte detsamma.

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