It all starts in the mind so conversation and/or communication are a must. Respect and social graces [I][B]DO[/B][/I] translate in online communication; you just have to work a little harder (and a little bit of hard work never hurt anybody). I subscribe to the idea that there is nothing kinky between two consenting adults, with the operative word being “consenting.” I’m open-minded and willing to consider new things but it will never involve (either giving or receiving) demeaning, abusive, or degrading behaviors. I understand preferences and will always respect them and expect the same in return. And since it starts in the mind it’s not all about a specific body size or type. For those who just have to know before they can be engaged – sorry. Yes, physical attraction and chemistry play roles, both secondary. ENGAGE MY MIND first and foremost and there’s a good chance you can engage other parts of me.

My Ideal Person I’ve nothing cast-in-stone. I may not be sure about what I want but I do know without a doubt what I don’t want. I’m open to new experiences and also repeating some of the more memorable from the past. Everything else we'll have to talk about.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Remember - nothing kinky between two consenting adults.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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