discreet_spice 49 / 44 / C
"Looking for social and sexual friends"
Hampton, Virginia, United States
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discreet_spice 49/C
Hampton, Virginia

We are looking for a single woman (FMF) and/or a COUPLE to be both casual and sexual friends with.

(*update - TOP priority - We would love to find a 'couple' in Hampton or Newport News to develope a frequent and ongoing FWB friendship with.)

(*update - Wife has learned to really enjoy some bi-play with a woman, but she is still somewhat mild. Just please realize she is not looking for any FF play alone - but prefers it in addition to her time with a man. Wife enjoys touching/caressing, exploring each others bodies, toys and more - but has no desire to give/receive oral from a woman - prefers that with a man).

We enjoy communication, the flirting, affection and time spent together building chemistry. We are looking for quality - not quantity. We understand how busy life gets, and we do not want to dilute our time and affection by talking to too many people.

We would love to talk and get to know you, exchange some flirtatious IM's/txt's, and actually go out to dinner socially and get to know a couple. If we go out, we are already very interested and up for playing on the 2nd date if you are ready.

We would ideally like to get together on the weekends, as able, whether it's a full swap playdate, or even just to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie. We enjoy talking throughout the week in between, whether it's a quick 'hello, i'm thinking about you.. how is your day?' or a full playful banter because we miss each other and just enjoy getting carried away.

We believe communication is the lifeline of any relationship - whether it is friends, lovers, casual or sexual. We like a couple that enjoys being open, honest, sincere and shares their desires, concerns, thoughts and feelings. We do not give up easily on couples we care about - and do not run at the first speedbump. We want everyone to feel comfortable, respected and desired.


We are very happy together and just looking for some genuine friends to add some social friendship and additional excitement to our lives. We are very secure, family friendly, discreet, patient and easy to get along with.

Hub is a bit of a hopeless romantic, always a gentleman, very expressive and loves to please. He can be gentle or rough - lets face it - a woman has different moods. What hub is most looking for in a woman, is playfulness, sincerity and someone who can hold their end of a converation. A woman that is responsive, is what turns him on the most.

Wife is sweet, considerate and very sexy - large breasts with very nice curves. Wife most enjoys a man that is intelligent, considerate and can take the lead while still being gracious. Wife doesn't initiate a lot, but she is very responsive. Don't be afraid to let your mind waunder in the gutter, as long as it is with class and not in a purely selfish way. (her words..) It also turns her on tremendously to see another woman enjoying her man, it fills her with pride and she knows how it feels. She also enjoys mild play with a woman, as long as it is part of being with a man as well. She enjoys the soft caress/feel of a woman along with the hard body of a man at the same time.

Wife is also looking to be able to forge a social friendship with the other woman and go out to lunch, shopping, ladies night for a drink, etc.


We are a full swap couple - equally comfortable with same room and seperate room. They both have their pro's/con's - so we enjoy a bit of both. We don't really enjoy going straight to the bedroom - but prefer a "dating" friendship. It is more fun to do something social and then sexual.

We are not attracted to notch posters and people that 'get around' a lot. We have never had an STD in our lives, and want to stay that way. With limited time, we like to give our time and affection to a small group with some regularity. Chemistry is everything

In the bedroom, we are open to watching/being-watched, interchangeable 3somes and 4somes, but are primarily looking for full swap. We enjoy starting our swap at dinner or at the movies, and enjoying our time outside of the bedroom as well. We like to make the experience a 'date.'

We are not into pain, bondage or anything really kinky. We just enjoy sensual passion and seeing that everyone is enjoying themselves, feels comfortable and is left wanting to do it again.. and again.. and again.. and looking forward to it between times. Life is busy - we want to be that added spice in each others lives.


We do have a sybian, anyone want a ride??? hehehe

  • 49/44 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Hampton, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: November 29, 1968 September 29, 1973
Relocate?: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm 5 ft 6 in
Body Type: Average Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college) BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable Not applicable
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 C