*** Taking a break as we are doing renos - Feb 2024 *** Sadly some people just can't accept rejection and instead are talking trash... If you are hearing this about us from a local couple (lower mainland) please let us know as this has been going on for far too long now... 10+ years! When people don't listen to or respect your boundaries why would you continue to build any type of relationship with them? Please keep in mind that some people are just miserable and full of themselves and will say anything to make themselves feel better. We're very much how we describe ourselves in our profile & are well worth the effort to meet... Don't believe everything you hear until you've met us in person and come to your own conclusions. :) WTF is wrong with some of you single guys on here?! YES we're all here for the same reason - sex, or some version of it - however we're not all interested in having you say things that are disrespectful and/or rude, assume that you're "god's gift" to our relationship or that you'll be the best she's ever had... You really think if you're behaving that way online that anyone is going to want you to join them in person? It's probably a good idea if you rethink your approach... Respect goes a LONG way and if you don't give it, you won't get it!! SINGLE MEN *** - We currently are not interested = when we need you, this will say so but as of right now (Feb 2024) no thank you. At our ages this shouldn't have to be put here but it seems some just don't get it.... no means no, period = No amount of convincing is going to change that. You'll just end up being blocked. Also, if you are married and are cheating, please move along. We don't want to be in the middle of something like that. Noticing a lot of people have very outdated pics.... we'd like to see recent pics please! (Nothing like seeing pics from 2007 when it's 2023!!! That's a lot of changes! We have pics that are 9 years old but ALL of our pics still depict what we look like.) Not to mention all the "prefer not to say's" on lots of profiles... C'mon people! You're basically selling yourself so if you don't say what you are/want how the hell do you expect to get anywhere?!?! Don't lie to people with old pics cuz as soon as they meet you, you're done. We are a VERY young looking mid - late 50's couple looking for the same (max age of about 60?). ABOUT US *** We are a happily married couple, over 33 years, who are looking for fun and excitement and are VERY selective on who we play with... quality over quantity with personality trumping everything! ;) There has to be a 4-way sexual connection for us (not between the men, only that they have to be ok with each other). This is about exploring together not "taking 1 for the team". We're not here to cyber chat or have virtual relations. We've discovered we really like watching each other and we know EXACTLY what we want and don't want. We respect all lifestyle choices, but understand that our choices may be different and please, don't take it personally if we decline. He's very straight - not even a bit curious and she's Bi - that being said she doesn't need to play with her if she's not Bi :) We are no Barbie and Ken but we take pride in our appearance and are both very easy going, attractive, fun people who are clean, D&D free and looking for good friendships as well as FWB's that are drama free, life's too short for BS at our age! ;) Also, if we say we're going to be there to meet... we are there. We don't play games and we don't waste people's precious time as we all have busy lives and we expect the same courtesy. We will ONLY play safe and together (don't ask her, Biz, in a private message to play alone as we share ALL messages), same room & no separation (no "sexy showers" to start the fun). We don't care if you've been tested, or say you're safe... BOTTOM LINE: no condom, no action, no exceptions... thank you for understanding our need to play safe. Discretion is a must. We're not the "jump into bed on the 1st meet" type, sorry... well maybe if it feels right! MORE ABOUT US: We enjoy being outdoors whether it's camping or road trips on our motorcycle :) We recently moved to Vancouver Island, Nanaimo area specifically. He enjoys a dry red wine and she'd prefer a fruity white while we both enjoy a nice cold beer. We enjoy our date nights which usually involve dinner and a movie :) We have an amazing sex life already but love to see each other pleasing and being pleased, what a huge turn on! If you think this sounds like you, don't be shy ;) Some moron on here decided to take 1 of our pics, post it to his blog and think we'd be ok with it - yeah..... NOT!!! OUR pics... DO NOT COPY!!! DO NOT USE IN YOUR PROFILE, BLOG OR ELSEWHERE!!! Clearly the disclaimers mean NOTHING, SO BE AWARE!! ***

My Ideal Person ** NON SMOKERS PREFERRED **
When we started this journey we were looking for that fabled unicorn, and we still are, but since joining this site we've discovered that the idea of another couple is also very arousing. We're looking for drama free friends with benefits that are easy going, fun, have personality and attitude, enjoy snuggling and are great kissers We love to meet new people and if there's a connection great! If not, no pressure as we've had a wonderful night out and met some interesting people

So far we've had an overall wonderful experience and looking forward to more! **

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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