yes...i KNOW this is AFF, but who says you can't enjoy getting physical, but also want something real? something meaningful? and maybe even...HUH!?...A RELATIONSHIP? i know you're out there; i just have to keep my eyes and heart open to find you. i will take my time and do it right, even if it means being with no one instead of the wrong per. this woman is inquisitive, exploring, open, sensual, submissive, kind, intelligent, sensitive maybe to a fault, and one who will only play safely. looking for a caring man who is a leader, as i am predominantly a follower in things of the physical nature. i do have a wild side i need to continue to explore, and it may be in the context of a real relationship with one special man who also has a need to do the same and wants to do it with me. always in the back of my mind is my "group of men/group of older men" fantasy, my "hot tub" and "train" fantasies, and some others, but you should still be nice and be respectful. i consider myself a sensual per, but wish to be treated as a worthwhile per first and foremost. i've done the casual thing; now on to the real stuff. let's see if we could actually find a connection. a REAL, POTENTIAL relationship will superceed any play here, for then, my heart may be involved, too. ;) - [COLOR crim] [I][I]please note: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. [/COLOR][/I][/I]

My Ideal Person Looking for someone real. someone sincere. a man of intelligence and heart. passion and creativity are a plus. yes, there should be chemistry, but looks are not a great issue with me; good things come in lots of different packages. i do like to see a face, though, so, if possible, be prepared to show me. i'm sorry, but no smokers or married men, please. not looking for one night stands...looking for a connection, maybe THE connection, the physical as well as the mental and emotional - even if you're NOT "The Connection", making a good friend is always a worthwhile endeavor. i remain, after all is said and done...a hopeful romantic.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dave Matthews, Bob Marley, Sheryl Crow, Frank, Ella, Harry Connick

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
It involves a cop...the uniform, you know. i'm being fingerprinted, and as he is standing beside me pressing my thumb into the ink, he presses against me and i can feel his hardness. i can hear his breathing quickening and realize that mine is, too...you'll have to ask me about the rest!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
That would be Sting...i'll keep the details to myself for now, thank you...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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