See my blog to know me better. I'm 40 years old, 5'11", 185lbs. Average-or-better build Handsome enough if I believe what others say about me. DDF, (you too for any IRL connection) Non-drinker, non-smoker, non-judgmental, (although I don't enjoy being in a closed place with someone smoking) I am in an unhappy, sexless marriage, but not ready/able/willing to change the situation right now. My need to give and share sexual pleasure and affection has been neglected for so long that it is affecting other parts of my life. This isn't about me getting off. (Although that is obviously a desirable additional benefit) I have been "taking care of myself" for 30+ years, I am pretty good at it, and the internet provides all the stimulation my eyes and mind need in that area for free with few complications. For me, the best part about sex has always been giving pleasure to my partner. But I haven't had a partner for a long time now, and the limits and lack of interest goes even further back. I want to help you to experience the greatest heights of sexual pleasure possible. If this means learning how to do what you want, EXACTLY how you want it, please teach me. If it means that I bring new experiences to you, I will share all that you'll allow. If we're especially lucky, we will explore new frontiers and discover things together.

Der ideale Mensch für mich Someone who is in a similar situation, or understanding of the need for discretion. Someone who willingly, enthusiastically, and gratefully receives pleasure.