I'm a pretty down to earth sort. I always try to treat people nicely, but if they get up my nose then I tend to be pretty frank in telling them what I think. Don't take crap from anyone, and for that reason won't do B & D. People aren't going to dominate or control me. I like to think whatever experience we have results in mutual satisfaction and enjoyment. In many ways I'm quite shy, but I do relax once I get to know you. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. When I'm at home alone, odds are I've brought work from the office with me, although there are some nights when I just need to blob out. I'm not changing my life, but I am exploring a few new options to see how it works out. I try to reply to all emails I receive, but I'm not that keen on endless emails if we're not likely to meet. On the same note I'll send face pics if we are going to meet, otherwise I won't. Do send pics if you want to but understand that, at this stage, I may not do so for a while. I am partnered but we do play separately if the occasion arises. We're not out. Not a paying member so can't read any messages you send.

My Ideal Person Hard to say at times. I guess I'm quite visual. Sometimes I make a judgment based on my first impression of somebody's face. Pure physical attraction. Pretty simplistic, I know. In reality much more complex. It's only once you start to get to know a person that you see other aspects of their personality. Some of my best straight friends are just so totally different that we're like "chalk and cheese". Someone who is relaxed and down to earth. I'm cut so get real a buzz from a fella who isn't. Probably prefer a fella in the over 40 age bracket. More attracted to guys who are, for want of a better description, men's men. Not turned on in the slightest by femmes/queens. Can't stand long hair. Much prefer a guy with short, close-cropped hair or shaved.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dire Straits, Mark Knopfler, Elton John, Queen, I have
a lot it just depends on the mood I

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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