Married, going through a bit of a mid-life crisis :D I don't think of myself as a cougar; in stark contrast to my current circumstances, I find myself attracted to tall, fit, athletic men my age or younger. OK, so that does sound a bit cougar-ish ;) To me, traveling means leaving the everyday world behind. In my free time I like to spend time outdoors. When I'm out driving I feel completely free in my car. When I'm at home alone (THAT doesn't happen very often), it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. I look forward to whatever life brings. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting.