abisubmale 53 / M
"For the woman who has everything else I am an orally-bi, submissive, white male, who wants to serve."
Acworth, Georgia, United States
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abisubmale 53/M
Acworth, Georgia
I am NOT into guys; I am into helping sexually active women enjoy their guys.
UPDATED and REVISED on December 5, 2014.
This update includes a “Fantasy” (see below the Introduction), which I hope will give you insight into what I am looking for in a match.

I realize that what I am in search of is outside the box, even for alternative lifestyle people. That said, I am a clean, respectful, gentle and obedient orally-bi, submissive, white male. I would like to serve a woman who will feel completely comfortable with me tending to the needs of her body. Simply put, I am looking for a woman who would enjoy having a submissive male servant to pamper her. I believe that every woman should have a submissive male to help make her life easier and more sensual. Don't you agree?

More than anything, I worship the female form for its beauty and grace, but unlike most guys who want to love a woman by fucking her, I want to love a woman only by tending to all her other needs and desires.

As a submissive, I can achieve true sexual gratification only by serving others. So, I am in search of a woman who would be comfortable allowing me to pamper her.

I have experience giving women pedicures and manicures and shaving a woman'’s legs and her vagina and under her arms. I, also, have experience applying and removing a woman's makeup. Additionally, my experience includes bathing women, giving them a douche and tending to their other feminine hygiene needs. Furthermore, I am well versed in assisting women to change into and out of their clothing and brushing and styling their hair. Perhaps most importantly, I am proficient at massaging every part of a woman's body to relax and soothe her. And, of course, I would be thrilled to eat her pussy and lick her asshole, whenever she might desire me to do so. I want, very, very much, to contribute in these (and other) ways to a woman’s happiness and pleasure -but only in ways that she is comfortable with, and I know that every woman has her own comfort zones and limitations

In return for my services, all I ask of the relationship is the opportunity to regularly tend to and pamper her body, but only at her convenience and her behest. In short, I desire to be a woman's personal servant -with privileges. I do have some occasional experience in serving women in these matters, and my skill levels are more than adequate, but, now, I am seeking a long term relationship with a woman or a couple.

Ideally, though, I would prefer to serve a married couple rather than a single woman, because I also adore the male who cares for and tends to the sexual needs of his female. So, if the woman is married, I would delight in tending to the needs of her husband, too, if she (and he) desire me to do so. And I would be happy to demonstrate my subservience to him whenever it pleased him for me to do so because, as I said, I am orally-bi (not gay, just orally-bi). I would certainly never give him reason to feel jealous of my relationship with his wife -I will pose no threat to his dominance in his home. Actually, I would be honored to suck on the cock that fucks the woman I serve; it would be a privilege to drink his cum. I hope he will be comfortable with my being his wife’s personal servant and allow me to serve him, too. Moreover, I would love to eat the cream pies that she and he make.

Please understand that I have no desire, what-so-ever, to fuck the woman I serve, regardless of how beautiful she may be; however, whatever other services I could provide, for either her or her husband, would be my pleasure. Think of the possibilities.

The relationship will not be about me; it will be about her and her partner. Nor do I have any intention of interfering with her marital or her romantic relationships. Nor will I be judgmental of her for her sexual exploits. I will be there only to serve her. My only goal will always be to add to her happiness and her pleasure by tending to her personal needs. In doing so, I know I could add tremendously to her sexual pleasure and make her (and her partner) extremely happy.

Furthermore, the woman I serve will never be embarrassed in front of her family or friends by my presence in her home. My behavior and my social skills, are almost impeccable -yet I do have a sense of humor. Additionally, in our relationship, the woman I serve will always be in charge; I will always conduct myself respectfully towards her (and her loved ones) and always according to her rules. And, of course, I know that “no” means no.

I am well educated (with a master’s degree in my chosen field); I have no criminal record, I do not use “recreational” drugs (although I have no problem with others using them), I do not now have, and have never had, any sexually transmitted disease (including HIV); I believe I am reasonably sane (I have never been treated for mental illness). I veer from the norm only in my sexual preferences, my sexual desires, and my sexual needs (Besides being orally-bi and submissive, I have a fetish for the female foot). I am, certainly, a good, kind, gentle, polite, respectful, loving, nurturing human being. I am, also, very easy to get along with -most people whom I meet like and respect me. I am about 5'5" tall, H/W proportionate at 165 lbs. I am white and have light colored hair and blue eyes. My penis is only average in length and girth (Well, maybe that’s a slight exaggeration -see, I do have a sense of humor.) and it is cut.

Although I am very serious about wanting to pamper an appreciative woman (and her partner), I hope the experiences we share will always be fun for both (all) of us.

I am not looking for a “Domme.” Nor am I looking for a BD/SM environment. I do not want to be painfully punished or humiliated for my sexual proclivities; I deserve better than that. I expect to be appreciated for my dedication, not be scoffed at for my situation. I am not looking for a date, or for love or romance or marriage. I am simply looking for a woman (married, single, lesbian, bisexual, or straight) who would enjoy having her body thoroughly pampered in a long term relationship (NSA).

I am certainly looking for a long term relationship, but if you simply want to try out an arrangement, I would definitely consider that, too. If you are interested in what I am offering, or even think you might be interested, or have questions or doubts or concerns, please contact me.

Most, sincerely,

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman to whom I can devote myself, a woman who wants to be served, enjoys being served, and appreciates being served by an attentive, gentle, and meticulous submissive male. My wish is to serve a woman who will allow me to thoroughly pamper her, a woman who will feel completely comfortable with me tending to the needs of her body, a woman who will not feel embarrassed about being naked in front of me or about instructing me in how to please her, a woman who has the self-confidence to be dominate and assertive without being abusive.

I hope the woman I serve will be a good natured and warm hearted woman, a nice person who is easy to get along with, a happy person, who is glad to be pleased by a submissive. In short, I am looking for a pleasant, happy, sane household that just happens to, also, be a zealously sexual household.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For me, as a submissive male, every day of the week provides
a unique opportunity to convert my fantasies into realities.
My Saturday morning fantasy, however, is my favorite fantasy
because Saturday would be the first "day of rest"
for my mistress after she had endured five long and grueling
hard work days and probably a late Friday night of partying
with alternative life style friends. So, typically, on
Saturday, my mistress would want to sleep late, and I would
not disturb her and her hubby until after 10AM. That is when
I would wake them to serve them breakfast. For my mistress,
I would prepare a cheddar cheese omelet with diced tomatoes
and green peppers, and for her hubby, a Swiss cheese omelet
with green peppers and onions. Of course I would serve them
both buttered whole wheat toast, orange juice, and coffee,
too. And, needless to say, their meals would be served to
them in bed, a separate tray for each of them. <br><br>
"Massage my feet, Michael, " my mistress always
says to me in my Saturday morning fantasy, as she starts
to eat her breakfast, and I, of course, delightedly but
gently, pull aside the covers from around her beautiful
long, narrow feet and, with sweet almond oil, commence
massaging each of her gorgeous toes, her lovely arched insteps, and her large but tender
heels. <br><br> As they eat their breakfast,
my mistress and her hubby joyfully reminisce about the previous night's sexcapades,
telling each other about the sensuous thrills and numerous
orgasms which they had experienced at the hands of the lovers
with whom they had partnered for the evening. And, always,
as they speak to each other of their adventures and ecstasies,
they would both become aroused and start kissing and groping
at each other. Eventually and inevitably, my mistress
would reach under the covers to fondle her hubby's
magnificent cock. "Michael, " she would say,
breathlessly, to me, when she could no longer resist the
temptation of gazing upon her husband's manhood,
"clear away the trays." Hurriedly, I would remove the trays from the bed and just as quickly my
mistress would throw the covers off of her hubby to expose
his long, thick, hard cock. In no time my mistress would
be licking and then sucking on his beautiful instrument,
taking it out of her mouth only long enough to instruct me to Lick
my asshole, Michael. And I would lick her asshole while
she sucked on him, until he can hold back no longer and is
ready to fuck her. Then he would lie on his back and my mistress
would straddle over him with her slender back towards his
face. Michael, hold his cock up for me, my mistress would say
excitedly to me, so I cautiously would lay down between her husbands
legs and, with my left hand, I would hold his cock straight up towards
my mistress' anxious pussy, and with my right hand I would spread my mistress lovely pussy lips
while she lowered herself down upon her husbands engorged dick.
The sight of them fucking, his beautiful, long wet cock
sliding in and out of her gorgeous, flowering, drenched pussy would
enrapture me until my mistress would, suddenly, shout to me, Suck on my clit,
Michael, at which time I would lean forward to take her clit into
my mouth, trying hard to suck on it without losing it while
she excitedly, wildly, gyrated around and pumped away
at the wonderful cock that filled her. <br><br> When they
finish fucking, my mistress would roll off of her hubby and lie back on the bed, exhausted but happy. Clean
me, Michael, she would then instruct me, and I would carefully
lay between her lovely legs and lick and suck her cum drenched
pussy clean of the cream pie they had just made. <br><br>
While my mistress and her husband rested from their morning
delight, I would carry the trays to the kitchen, place the
dirty dishes in the dish washer, and then set to work cleaning
the master bathroom. <br><br> After napping
for a short while my mistress husband would have me give
him a whole body, deep tissue massage, and, sometimes,
if he still had any sexual drive left, he would instruct
me to give him a blowjob and swallow his cum, which I would
obediently and gladly do for the man who always made my mistress
so happy. Then, he would go off to the bathroom, which I had
just cleaned, to shave, shower, and dress. Afterwards,
he would leave the house to hang out with his friends and watch the afternoon ball game. When my mistress
decided she was rested enough, she would have me give her
a full body, deep tissue massage, shave her legs, her pussy,
and under her arms, give her a manicure and a pedicure and
then bathe her, dry her, dress her, style her hair, and apply
her makeup, so she would be ready to meet her friends for
a well deserved afternoon shopping spree. <br><br>
Although I am always happy to serve my mistress and her husband,
I will be glad that they are gone for the afternoon, because
cleaning their house, doing their laundry, and making their bed is always so much
easier when they are not at home.

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  • 53 / male
  • Acworth, Georgia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: January 1, 1965
Marital Status: Prefer not to say
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Race: Caucasian
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
Facial Hair: