[COLOR darkred]Women are like a meal: You have some who are like fast food - easy, cheap, but lacking in taste and substance. Some are like meat and potatoes - filling, but not very exciting. And some (like myself!) are like a gourmet dinner - full of complexities and subtleties that leave you craving more. "Gourmet" women are a fine dining experience, not to be rushed, but savoring every morsel, lingering over every flavor, and appreciating the time and effort that put together such a fine experience. In one bite, she is delicate, giving you just a hint of what's to come; in the next bite, she's bold and complex, taking your breath away. So, are you hungry yet?[/COLOR] Hi there! Thanks for checking out my profile :-). I'm looking to meet new people and make new friends. What am I NOT looking for? [COLOR blue]I'm NOT looking to hook up, so please don't ask me if I want to have sex with you. And please, DO NOT SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOUR PENIS! I'm sure you love it and want to show it off, but I'm more interested in what's between your ears, not your legs. I'm NOT looking for married men. If you want to cheat, find someone else to help you. I'm NOT looking for other women for sex partners - it's just not what I'm into. Neither are couples. I'm not looking for a "hook-up", so please don't even ask. If all you want is sex, find a ....[/COLOR] Now, since that's out of the way... What are my interests? I love most types of music -- except really "twangy" country and hardcore . My musical preferences run from classical to heavy metal and beyond (I have a CD and tape collection to prove it too). I just recently completed my Masters in Information Technology. Computers fascinate me, and I'm not afraid to "crack the hood" on one, so to speak. I am very self-sufficient, independent, well-read, well-educated, intelligent... If you are looking for a "bimbo", look elsewhere. If you are intimidated by "strong" women, then don't waste your time or mine. Other things about me: I'm divorced, no s, don't smoke, and rarely drink. I do like going out and having a good time, whether it's to the movies, a concert, or just for a walk at the park. I have long,thick brown hair (goes past my shoulders) and green eyes. I've been told I have a beautiful smile -- and if you're nice, I'll let you see it :-) Well, that's all for now. I'd love to hear from you...

My Ideal Person A fine "wine" that complements an outstanding "meal" such as myself I'm looking for a man with the intellect of Einstein, the wit and charm of Sean Connery, the looks of Richard Dean Anderson, the voice of Patrick Stewart, and the fashion sense of Eddie Izzard.. No, seriously... I am only interested in kind, caring, passionate SINGLE/DIVORCED men who are interested in a long-term companionship-based relationship - not a one-time fling. If that's not you, go ahead and press Alt F4 now and save both of us time. I prefer older (40 - 55) white men (altho I've recently met a few Latino men that have wow-ed me!), tall (at least taller than me), dark-hair (greying is OK too), handsome, gentle, well educated, well read, traveled, and if you're not one, I won't respond. You must know how to and be willing to communicate your needs, wants, and desires, as I failed Mind Reading 101 in college. You must also believe in honesty and open-ness with each other. I do enjoy sex (for those who think I don't), but I think the best sex is that which involves a deep emotional connection. Otherwise, it is empty and not worth participating. You must have a good sense of humor, because if you can't laugh at the world, the world will laugh at you! Did I mention honesty and open-ness? Just checking...

Three Turn Offs:
1) Lack of respect - towards me or others. I will not tolerate it, so don't even attempt it. And if you have to ask what "respect" means, you probably won't be meeting me.

2) Lack of honesty - If you have to lie or withhold information to meet me, would I really want to spend my time on you? Probably not...

3) Lack of communication - I don't expect you to be a chatterbox. However, I expect you to say what you mean and mean what you say (respectfully and honestly, of course). I'm not a mind reader. I know what I want - do you know what you want?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Way too many to list.. don't like country or

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a monogamous sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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