I'm a professional, good-looking, muscular, highly educated man, who enjoys both great conversation/intelligent company and getting physical (sexually and non-sexually). I'm a n/s, former college athlete...I still work out regularly, and I would describe my build as powerful, muscular. Sexually, I like lovemaking (or hard fucking, whatever the mood might be) to last a long time, both investing in each other's pleasure and "body exploring." I can be soft, tender, and gentle, or I can be aggressively dominant--I'm comfortable in both roles. I LOVE to give orally to an appreciative woman and am willing to give for hours to the right lover! I'm on this site looking for fun with a reliable partner or a "friends with benefits" arrangement. My top focus is finding someone who I "click" with...an enthusiastic, intense, and open-minded lover. I would prefer to have one partner whom I adore and with whom I find a connection than to have many partners or one-night stands. I am open to occasional group play as a variation and if she's interested, but my focus, again, is to have great one-on-one attraction, passion, and "connection." Finally, I post few pics on the site for professional reasons, but if we strike up a dialogue, I'll gladly provide pics privately.

My Ideal Person She should be between the ages of 30-60 (I prefer women in their 30s or older--maturity, wordliness, and life experience allow for a more complex and multifaceted relationship, whether it be platonic,a sexual friendship...or more), sexually open-minded, intelligent (she should be bright, curious, insightful, excited about life), open to new things, and a decent conversationalist. She need not be a "Barbie," but she should be physically fit. Sexually, she should be open and mature about her sexuality. She should like to give and receive orally (past lovers have told me I'm VERY good at giving...). I'll admit I have fantasies about being with a woman who loves receiving orally and ejaculates when she orgasms. She should like both sexual and non-sexual intimacy (I love to touch, caress, kiss, massage, hug, hold, etc)--I am both a sexual and sensual man. She should love and enjoy life, and be an optimist. She should have the courage to be herself, ask for what she wants, and be able to express her needs, desires and dislikes--I like strong, confident, intelligent women who are not afraid to fearlessly be themselves!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
many--varies by mood, situation

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
1. giving oral to a woman who ejaculates when she orgasms
2. giving oral to many women--being their oral slut/toy/slave
3. occasionally an MFM or FMF or group event (GB or orgy or
2 couples...)
4...but most of all, good 1-1 sex with an enthusiastic partner

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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