We are a happily married couple with a life far outside of the swinging culture. Work, s and life always come first, but that doesn't mean we don't take time for ourselves sometimes too.We are interested in spicing up our sex life as our previous encounters were fun and peaked our interest for a whole lot more. Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are easy-going. When it comes to physical health, we aren't Barbie and Ken but always strive to improve. We are definitely searching for new friends that are great to hang out with - the side benefits would make it even more amazing. We are not looking for drama in any form. We are a professional working couple that wants to be able to have a discrete relationship yet open friendship. We are new to the state and even friends without benefits are great too! We are definitely not a couple that is out to collect pictures, make notches on our bedpost for all our conquests nor swap because we have "made" and effort to get to know someone. We have many responsibilities that keep us from "playing" all the time and on the spur of the moment. This is our life. This is what we chose. This is how we want it to be. We are looking for couples/single females that might accept us for us and will let us do the same to them. Friendship is what we are hoping for. Friendship with a little somthn somthn on the side would be even better. This isn't a LIFESTYLE to us. It is plain and simply adult fun in our nonjudgemental and nonjealous relationship. The day it is not fun anymore, is the day that it stops. Until then, we keep looking for those elusive sexy, fun and flirty people we can hang with and see where it goes. Having done the whole INTERNET meeting scene for a while, we have come to the realization that most people are just NOT worth the time and effort to get to know. We are ok with whatever circumstances happen to feel comfortable in meeting. That might be a few emails, a few chats, a few phone calls or something else. It all comes down to comfortability. If we cant have a flowing conversation on the computer, then how are we suppose to do it in per? If we cant have an educated conversation without the words HORNY, FUCK, PUSSY and CUM in them then we probably arent going to meet. (dont get us wrong, we can have a sexy and fun conversation with the best, but does everything have to go there instantly?) When it comes down to actually meeting, it just has to feel like there is a chance of clicking....if not...then on we must go! We are not planning on getting a paying membership again for a while...honestly it just wasnt worth it....too many fakes, classless and strange people. That being said however, we are still open to the possibility of finding and meeting, it just means we cant initiate emails or look at pics very well. If you contact us, then we can contact you. If you just flirt, then we cant do anything but flirt back!

My Ideal Person ­he a straight man and a bi woman.

We would like to find a woman to join us - maybe long term - or a couple if the situation is right. We'd like to find friends first with benefits second. We definitely consider ourselves kinky! Although it is only kinky if you dont like it! There isn't anything taboo in our bedroom. (except guy/guy stuff...or things that are just WRONG! We like exploring it all! As far as we­he concerned, the best place to have sex is any where you may or may not get caught!

One sexual fantasy we've always had is is for my husband to experience 2 woman at a time, for me to be with a woman again and for my husband to watch or for him to be with another woman with me watching.