Physically, I am in reasonably good shape, not a body builder or a male model by any means, but an average man that loves the outdoors, stays fairly active and cares about how he looks. However, I don't have expectations that a female partner be especially fit. As a matter of fact I prefer being close to a soft body, so a few extra pounds are much more desirable to me than the too-skinny runway type; they are just too thin, and not at all desirable to me. I prefer the female body to be huggable, squeezable, and to see a little bit of quivering or jiggling when certain movements are made. That just intoxicates me to no end, and turns me on VERY fast. (Think in terms of weight loss commercials. I usually find the ‘before’ appearance much more appealing than the ‘after’ look.) I don't go to bars....can't really stand the dark, and sometimes loud, atmosphere. And the people who frequent bars tend to be less discrete than I prefer. I am an intensely private per, and want a mate who can respect that. The privacy of my partner, by the way, is absolutely guaranteed. I never kiss and tell, and will always honor the privacy and feelings of any woman. I do love sex. I like it to be free, without having to beg or angle for it. I like it in many different settings, not just in the bedroom, and not necessarily even in the house. Having sex in a semi-public place on certain occasions, depending on the circumstances, can be wonderful and thrilling. Keeping sex fresh and pleasurable is very important to me. I have only had sex with one woman at a time, but would not be opposed to experimenting a little, with a threesome for example, if my partner had a desire for it. But be assured it’s not something that I need. My favorite sexual pastimes? Running my fingers through my partner’s hair, slowly, while I cuddle her up, letting my fingers gently stroke her head. I also enjoy scratching her back lightly. I seem to be leaning toward the gentle side of sex as I mature, and find pleasure in things that I had not considered previously. And, since I was young, giving oral to a woman is absolutely the finest part of good sex. Do I enjoy harder sex too? Absolutely. There is so much that can be done with warm, wet, eager parts of the female body, but these days I tend to make the encounter last longer by taking in the gentile side first. Being judgmental is not part of my makeup, and I prefer not to be around people who are. Acceptance of others has become a major trait of my perality as time has passed, and perhaps it has contributed to making me easy going, free of unnecessary cares, at peace with myself and life in general. By the way, I have a job, I pay my bills, and the law is not after me. How does that grab ya? :D

My Ideal Person I crave having a woman in my life that is as sexually driven as I am. Today sex includes quiet talk, holding, cuddling, stroking, squeezing tight, and similar intimacies that I had little appreciation for earlier in life, although, as mentioned above, the harder parts of sex still have their place.

I love a woman that is accepting, has mothering instincts, and understands the desires a man naturally has. And a woman who can receive petting and other pleasures with gratitude, and can give back a small part of what she gets, is very nice.

I don't mind a woman who is something of a homebody. The bar/club life holds little interest for me. However, getting dressed up, meaning I wear slacks and a nice shirt, and maybe even a coat and tie, and she wears a pretty dress, and going out for a nice dinner, does interest me a lot. I enjoy taking trips, finding new experiences, and doing things that add a little spice to life.

Superficial things, like breast size, body shape, height, and weight, are not important to me, within limits. As an example of what I mean, I learned long ago that it is not the breasts that make the woman, rather it is the woman that makes the breasts. Their sensitivity and the enjoyment the woman gets from having them fondled are what matters. They should turn her on when handled in the right way, and she needs to know how to use them in sexual encounters. Breasts that do this are very nice breasts, regardless of their size. I honestly think most women enjoy their breasts and know how to use them.

Like most men, I want a woman to be dignified in public. But she can be an absolute wild lover in private, as erotic and loose as she feels moved to be.

Best Wishes to everyone, and thanks for looking. Face photos are available on request.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To have dinner or drinks, and be one of the last to leave.
The parking lot is fairly empty, and it's the perfect
place to have sex. She opens the car door and sits in the seat.
I stand outside the car facing her, unzip, and present myself
to her. She takes it in her mouth. She is hungry for it. She
works it like she is literally starving. When the erection
is nice and hard she gets out of the car and stands inside the
open door. I lift her dress, slide my hands down her shapely
bottom, reach down and spread her thighs slightly. She
backs into me and grinds her tush into my groin. With my finger
I find the opening of her vagina, and guide my erection in. I am hard. She is wet. We both knew
this was going to happen. I slam it in deep and hard, and the
pleasure is on. It's doggie style, standing up. It
doesn't take long. When she cums, I know it has been
a good encounter. <br><br>
I have actually had parking lot sex twice (the other time she laid over the hood of a car), and
both times people were relatively near, near enough we
could have been seen, but weren't. It is an amazing
way to have sex. Would love to do it again sometime.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Outdoors. Doesn't have to be remote!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Haven't tried many of these. Might like lots of themif
I did.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not much. Maybe Lonnie Anderson when I was younger. Her
blond hair, big breasts, and tight dresses really did it
for me then.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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