Please read my blog, Blowing Smoke. You'll get a better idea of who I am! What does your orgasm feel like? How deep are you willing to go into your pleasure? With the right connection, and a lover who is willing to go slowly, treating every inch of your body as the erogenous zone it is - especially your heart - you can flow into ecstasy for hours. The big paradox is that the more you try for a great orgasm, the harder it is to get one. Let's find out where the slow approach takes us. I'm a very young 57, in excellent shape and health. I'm poly - I believe you can love more than one per at at time, and that each relationship brings unique joy, whether it's sex or understanding or love. I'm a relationship coach who makes no distinction between work and play. I'm very present with everyone - especially a lover. I will give you my full attention for hours. Will you give me yours? I'm a Tantric practitioner. I know how to focus on your pussy, or on my own cock. I know how to feel your energy and move it, and when there's real chemistry we might feel that magic we call divine union. And I'm not caught up in the woo-woo - I have simply experienced whole body, energetic orgasms and now they're the core of my sex life. I'm independent and not into the falseness of dating. I am who I am and show up authentically. I'm educated and well-read. I'm a self-taught geek and artist, writer, Burner, photographer, videographer and occasionally a clown. I maintain my own schedule and am not tied down to a 9-5 job. I love to show off my lovers to the world. Especially I like everyone to see how amazing you are and how much you're loved with PDA's and showing off your beautiful body. I can be discreet in respecting your privacy, but I'd rather see you proud of your sexuality. I am an erotic adventurer and can be very dominant in the bedroom while maintaining balance and respect in the real world. I absolutely love to eat pussy and ass and can do it for hours. And when I do I end up so charged that I can fuck for hours too. True - no exaggeration. One lover and I had sex for nearly 16 hours straight - see my blog. Let's play!

My Ideal Person A woman or a couple who's aware of their own energy. Someone unafraid to explore slow, sensual movement. Someone who wants to open up wider than she thought she could. Someone who loves every form of touch. Someone creative and juicy who understands that connection and friendship are essential for good sex. I'm wired straight (women only) for arousal but with a couple I'm bi-sensual. And in that context - I'm up for almost all forms of expression from exhibitionism to sensual touch to threesomes and foursomes and BDSM.

I only date singles or people in open relationships. No cheating. And I'm open to FWB or to consider a LTR.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Yes, Led Zeppelin, Cat Stevens, Jethro Tull

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Exhibitionism, Outdoors

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Tantra and energy

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. I'm more into real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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