Words that I think sum me up. Creative, fun, passionate, erotic, sensual, sexy,free-spirited, compassionate, educated, relaxed, unique. I'm looking to make new friends in the area for fun times. Now, fun times does not necessarily mean sex, though I'm not opposed to it, I honestly just like new and open-minded friends. Im not in the market for a dedicated, monogamous relationship, been there, done that, and now just hearing the Olivia Newton John g 'Hopelessly Devoted to You' sends me into panic attacks! Besides, monogamy is so boring! I like to think of myself as a 'renaissance man' , I enjoy an incredibly wide range of activities, really anything new and exciting. Its typically hard for me to list my favorite things as I have so many. Life is an experience that should be breathed in as much as possible, not pigeonholed into a small set of the same experiences performed repetitively! I must warn you, I am highly educated, knowledgeable, and a serious smart ass to boot. On the bright side, I usually keep my friends in stitches laughing though! Physically, I have long hair, muscular build (believe in my health and fitness), blue eyes. I am very well educated and have a professional career, but my true love is music, and a great deal of my free time is spent exploring different avenues of that. Whether it is listening to it, or performing it. I do play in a band, but don't ask me day one if you can come right out and see me play... Until I know you're not some psycho stalker, I'm sure not telling you where I work, and how to find me all the time! I mean, that'd be like me asking you where you work, and if I can show up at your office before I know you! I tend to be a very private per. I am in the public eye a good bit, so try to keep my peral life exactly that, peral. A friendship with me is bound to be fun, exciting, and full of laughter. I'm discrete and casual, witty and fun, and always ready for the newest adventure! Sexually, I'm open to about anything.

My Ideal Person Adventurous, erotic, intelligent, fun. I tend to shy away from the 'banker' cut, that impressions are more important than reality of who you are. I believe in living life by your own rules as much as possible, and while I respect and care for those around me, I don't need to put up a front to impress them. I live for me, not them. Don't take your life too seriously, and laugh at your problems. Most of the rest of us are laughing at your problems too.

If you are the kind of person that says things like 'Thats so stupid' , 'What are they thinking' , and like to pass judgment on others, I'm probably not the guy for you. I despise negativity, rudeness, and condemnation. I don't judge others, and I don't like being around people that have to resolve some deep seated emotional/self worth issue by belittling others.

Intelligence is very much key to me, and a great sense of humor. I laugh ALOT, and enjoy being around others that laugh easily as well. If you don't have a sense of humor, you'll hate me. If you don't like goofy, energetic, positive people, I'll annoy you (and I'd spend all of my time feeling sorry for you anyways that you spend your life with a corncob shoved that far up you ass!). If you're ignorant, vulgar, spiteful, you'll annoy me.. But for the most part, its about impossible to get on my bad side.

Physically I don't look for any one thing. I've always thought people that looked for an exact physical attribute or range of attributes in a friend were a bit on the shallow side. Why judge people upfront by a narrow physical filter, when there are so many wonderful things inside to explore as well? Doesn't make sense to me. So, I'm not horribly concerned with your eye color, hair color, exact dimensions, beauty is a mixture of both internal and external qualities, and I hold off on my opinions until I see both sides.

In a nutshell, I'm looking for fun,open-minded and interesting friends. If we hit it off and have loads of wild and erotic sex, wonderful, but just know that it's not my primary goal. Even if we don't, I make an excellent friend, and trustworthy confidant.

I'm a real person. I'm not here just looking for easy hookups, I'm looking to make friendships.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There are so many, its difficult to pick one.One would be
having sex with a married/attached woman while her significant
other was tied up/bound and forced to watch. (Consensually
of course) <br>
Everything new can become a fantasy with the right partners

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