What to say ..... and how to say it briefly? I recently ended a long term relationship so I am feeling rather shell shocked. I am torn between wanting to be licentious and indulge every fantasy, and wondering if my white picket fence dream of a family with ren is still possible. Ah, the white picket fence dream .... I love ren. I wonder if fulfilling such a dream is still possible at my age. It would mean finding a woman younger than me - someone with a mother's love, a God honouring heart, a hedonist's sense of adventure and the patience of a saint. All that and not be a ! Does someone like that exist? Is this but the wildest of my fantasies? Such dreams are elusive. But that only makes me treasure friendships more. And that's what I am looking for here. I may be a hedonist but I like to treat people with respect. If we are not looking for love we can at least offer civility. So my fetishes include acting like a gentleman and reminding women that they are beautiful! I try to treat my lover with respect outside the bedroom so that she can trust me when I take charge in the bedroom and try to make her feel honoured and treasured! I like to do other fun things too. I like to take pictures and short videos, in a way that reveals my lover as beautiful but hides her identity. It’s great fun and it involves wigs, masks, boas, and an executioner’s hood. It is a silly, wonderful, and long story best told over coffee or during a dinner date. :-D There are other more provocative adventures that fascinate me, some that I have enjoyed (and want to enjoy again), and others that I wish to enjoy. They are the sort of thing that a gentleman doesn’t discuss, but age boys fantasize about them and poets sing about them! The one thing I know about such adventures is that they are best enjoyed by two rather than one. So what am I seeking? The white picket fence dream, I suppose. But what do I hope to find? Friends; cuddle buddies (‘friends with benefits’ and ‘f-ck buddies ‘are crass, inadequate descriptions for my taste). Ladies I can trust in friendship; couples who are unpretentious. All who are willing to let me be both a gentleman and a lover. What can I offer? I must honestly say I can’t offer the commitment required for a long term relationship. I am just too shell shocked right now. But I can offer respect; civility; recreational worship! Hours of kissing (I love to kiss!); hugs; a distain for tobacco, alcohol, and drugs. (Please! Be a non-smoker – I have allergies.) I can offer conversation where I listen more than I talk. I can offer the longest of hugs (and hopefully a minimum of snoring) as we fall asleep together, exhausted and overwhelmed by joy! What happens after that? Well .... that’s just part of the adventure, isn’t it?

分享一個您最愛的性幻想。大聲說出來吧！:
Whatever the scenario I just like to be intensely in the
moment. My ultimate fantasy is to be with a lover I can trust
completely as we explore new things and have new adventures.

什麼樣的性愛活動令您著迷？:
給與口交, 享受口交, 3p, 互慰, 製作家庭"電影", 參與情色攝影, Kissing/ Cuddling

您尋找性伴侶時的主要條件？:
願意討論與嘗試不同型態的性愛, Maturity and a sense of adventure

曾經想像過與名人發生性關係嗎?誰?他們有什麼吸引你的地方呢?:
Hey - I AM a celebrity. :-)

您曾體驗過網路性愛嗎?:
不可能，我都來真的。

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