I am an open-minded person, and you can easily talk to me. The only thing that offends me is ignorance. My interests are varied and eclectic. I am a jack-of-all-trades, and like to try everything on the menu (Yeah, I can take a long time to order). I like fresh air, and enjoy hiking and swimming (au naturel, where possible). I like to be creative (music, photography, film, writing, cooking), but enjoy more passive activities, as well (reading, TV, eating, er, excuse me, dining out). I find group activities, like "Game Night" (in or out of the bedroom) entertaining, but also enjoy one-on-one time with that special someone. Politically, I am libertarian (I support guns AND gay marriage, though I do not have either). I am a live-and-let-live guy that doesn't believe in zero sum outcomes or thinking. I respect all, by default, until given cause not to do so. Mental sparring and philosophical exercises keep me in tune and empathetic, and I look forward to an exchange of ideas. Sexually, I am very oral. I am a passionate kisser, regardless of with which lips I am aligned. I have no problem setting up shop, downtown, and pleasing you until you are spent. I can, also, be very vocal, and I appreciate a partner who is not afraid to let the world know she is enjoying herself. I stated, above, that I enjoy group activities. I've had group encounters with friends (four or five-some), but have never been to an actual swing party. I enjoy pornography where the participants are smiling and laughing. I like my encounters to be the same way. Sex should be fun, not work. I, normally, avoid labels, and treat every person as an individual. I have marked myself as bisexual, for simplicity's sake. I don't give it much thought, otherwise. I see people as people, skin as skin, pleasure as pleasure, and love as love, regardless of whom, or what part of them, is involved. I understand that some couples will include a member of a different orientation, and I am perfectly capable and willing to respect their boundaries, should I be privileged enough to be invited to share myself with them.

Der ideale Mensch für mich My unicorn is a healthy, spirited, bisexual woman, who embraces her sexuality, as well as mine. She needs to have a little nerd in her, to appreciate the pop culture references I will inevitably make. She is romantic and sophisticated, but not easily offended, enjoying, both, sharp wit and crude humor. She is adventurous, but mentally sound, accepting of others, yet, no fool for drama. Being active is important, physically and mentally. I need someone who can keep up with me, but there's nothing wrong with curling up with a good book, or binging our favorite shows. An appreciation of singing out loud, with the windows rolled down, is vital.

I would, ultimately, like to find a long-term playmate and partner in crime, but the best part of life is the journey, and I look forward to meeting new accomplices along the way. I want friends with whom I can be myself; people to whom I do not need to make any excuses or justifications for who I am, or the life I wish to live. I know the list, above, seems exhaustive, but nothing mentioned (aside from mutual respect, and a lack of drama) should be considered a deal breaker. My interests are numerous and eclectic, just as I imagine the company I keep will be.

I am looking forward to making new friends with you.