Hi there!OK BEFORE YOU KEEP READING>>I DO NOT LIVE ON LONG ISLAND! NOT NEW HYDE PARK I am a mature self confident woman, independent and do NOT NEED a man to take care of me financially however I do Like the idea of sharing myself with a man i can relate to, I want to share my sense of humor, my love of music, the water, outdoors, my love of movies and cooking, I also love sex BUT have found that I am a far better girlfriend or wife than a drive thru sex partner Its just not for me,ok guys dont panic am not saying you have to commit and move in ! Ha Ha... I am just saying the act of sexing you up without barely knowing what to call you is just not my idea of a healthy relationship. I have been a widow for the past 3 years and i truely miss connecting with a man I can consider a friend as well as lover. I am a larger woman and as i said mature and have some battle scars to prove it lolol BUT if your looking for a honest, upfront funny as hell sexy as hell woman then hit me up we may just have something there! I am partial to black men sorry but thats what i am comfortable with a definate prefence and No jungle fever here Just a connection i have, can explain more as we chat .. so take a chance holla at your girl

My Ideal Person Looking for a honest man ( yeah i know its alot to ask but I know they exist) Ha Ha.. I prefer black men with a sense of humor( its a must) education both book and streetwise( never hurts to know the ropes ya know what imean) I dont want a married man If its your thing fine BUT i dont want that Karma back on me. do you know how to flip, rub it and at the same time hug me? do you have the romantic side open yet can turn the "thug love on?" well then lets see if we can connect.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jazzmasters, Earth wind Fire.anything Pharrel produces, again
to many to mention

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
well it involves taking me against my will ( staged of course)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Pharrell! i love that kid! yessirrrr oh and any "corporate
Thug type.. after rick James In 1979 i've been hooked
HaHa

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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