So first time on one of these sites. Smoker, not drinker, work way too much. I tend to be very blunt, but I believe you shouldn't beat around the bush to say something. This tends to turn people away from me. Starting this new year with looking to expand my peral life, which I really don't have now, lol. Not really sure what I am expecting from people, but would like to believe I have an open mind.