Ohs4u2 54 / M
"looking to Experiment / couples who play more on the BDSM side where she can feel safe with her significant other present-seeking dominant role. I need not be a dominant man too dominate her, but instead simply adore her, be worthy of her sweet submission and in her mind, represent trust!"
Buena Park, California, United States
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Member Since: July 4, 2014

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Ohs4u2 54/M
Buena Park, California
Looking for experimentation, being domed / Sub, or doming - anything interesting of high orgasmic potential
****** I am straight, 100% but not homophobic by any means *****
\******Now a standard member I cannot initiate a converstion *******
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thank you for taking the time to read this

I am a gentleman in excellent physical condition with many infatuations
and obsessions.I am here seeking couples ( Or single females –lifeline required) that are interested in the area of BDSM, I realize that this can be difficult for some couples, one having more interest than the other or just fearful , so Im hoping to find a couple, with a wife whom feels submissive, yet the husband emotionally cannot fulfill this role (His reason his own)Fear shaming or degrading her, humiliating her or hurting her and having that affect their relationship in its entirety, I seek to be a buffer, pacify her needs and introduce the couple to a new world, let him see that there are pains and punishments that she likes and aspires to when aroused, that it's ok to punish her and at times humiliate or degrade her acting as though the situation is real as long as it's clearly understood that it's role play and it ends when the scene ends, that toward the end of a session, he need become her care taker, become compassionate, he need acknowledge the wounds he has bestowed upon her and sooth her wounds, assure his love and admiration and show utmost respect, indicate and be grateful for the gift she has granted him, and prove worthy of it, her submission and emphatic trust must be rewarded, she must be adored and cherished for giving this of herself, he need be sure that her dignity and self-respect be intact and enhanced, not degraded at a sessions end, she need leave a session knowing more of herself than she did when their session began, she must see beauty in herself, know it to be real, he need be her mirror capturing everything of beauty within her and casting that beauty back upon her, clear for her to see and experience, allow her to emotionally absorb the exquisite radiance and admiration he feels for her, knowing she is adored, her gift and person, so deeply cherished. Yes she need see her beauty, as envisioned, perceived through his eyes and mind, for what she has bestowed upon him!
I am a very personable easy going and compassionate individual, disease free and respectful,will be honest with you and most certainly try to accommodate your needs over mine, my interest is to introduce someone to BDSM in
a pleasant non-threatening way, allow her to feel safe (Paramount) so she can fully appreciate her experience.
I have developed my own dominant Creed I believe it to be highly ethical, a proper representation of my Dominant
persona – Here it is>>>>>>> Dom Side Creed, philosophies and the rules I will adhere to
1. I must be of more service to my sub missives than they are to me
2. My Submissive, will choose both the destination and route to be taken for her journey (emotional)
I am simply a guide, making sure that her needs are met, her journey fulfilling, I may make small
deviations from her preferred path, but only to destinations of her interest, so long as this alteration
does not break trust in any capacity. ( I will know her likes and limits and respect them )
3. I am to serve as her mirror, capturing all that is of beauty within her and casting that beauty
back upon her, she will see herself as viewed through my eyes and perceived in my mind, she will
realize her own beauty.
4. I am her dominant, but she is my Master, her needs and wants define my path.
5. We are equal in mentor-ship, one always learning through and from the other
6. I may never break trust, ignore nor cross boundaries or limits, never allow a situation in which
real panic, nor perceived threat of true danger or bodily harm exist.
7. I need be compassionate, lick and mend the very wounds I inflict, assure her self-respect is fully intact, proud of her accomplishments and herself! She must always leave me feeling of more radiance, self-worth and beauty than when she approached me
Let me be clear I am a Novice Dominant with a very clear understanding of the Dynamic but my practice and experience minimal, this would be a learning experience for all involved, but fun as well !
I seek the Novice Submissive as I am a novice dominant and would like to learn together, I am well educated in the safety aspects of the play in which I pursue have club memberships, in which I attend classes and obtain knowledge I have been domed by true professionals to further educate myself and now would like to start on a dominant path with a like minded experimental individual who would like to take it slow, test herself with an individual who would seek her inner beauty!
The initial sessions could be in a club environment,and could include some
very well versed dominants in the session,this may seem like a most intimidating path, but is indeed the safest, being public and with support. My
club experiences have left me feeling, beautiful, cherished and admired, All my fears and apprehensions passing swiftly, replaced rapidly with admiration.
I would love to bring this to another individual and watch her blossom!
I am very gentle and totally infatuated with the female orgasm and one who also loves performing oral for lengthened periods of time. My biggest two joys in life are witnessing a woman climax and secondly to Orally pacify her.

I have a large collection of toys (clean and covered) to help you get to where you want to go... So if you like being massaged and touched tenderly, orally satisfied and explored, Lets talk I'm legit and sincere in what I say

My little fantasy_written from her perspective
You find yourself abruptly stripped
naked and controlled, tied down and vulnerable, accessible and unable to control anything,
the psychology of this itself arousing you, lubricating as the scent of your moisture fills the room. all control has been stripped away and put into my hands, yet you are comfortable knowing that every nerve in your body will be made to feel joyous, that you cannot stop what you will be made to feel ,as your most intricate and sensitive areas are bombarded with stimulation, that it’s out of your control and you can do nothing to stop it! your most private regions gently massaged and penetrated while you lie there exposed and helpless, the stimulation taking it toll as your arousal transitions to Orgasm, your body starting to show the signs, the little beads of sweat accumulating on you, as your breathing grows heavy and panting, your nostrils flaring open and shut as your breath escalates and you emit soft little whimpers, your body now taking over , your mind lost to what your body is experiencing ,thoughts of escape whirling as your muscles start pulling at your bindings, but there is no release, you are helpless! Your body twitching and slowly staring to convulse, your inner sanctum clenched tightly. You struggle but the stimulation will not cease, every muscle fiber in your body now visible under your glistening perspiration as Orgasm approaches, your mind fighting for control but your body and what it is feeling will win, you will orgasm and cannot stop it! As you now spasm on the bed, your breathing frantic as orgasmic waves rip through your body, and the stimulation continues, non- ceasing as you become yet more sensitive, too sensitive and unable to escape, vulnerable now to stronger more intense orgasms each one more intense than the one preceding it, making you hypersensitive and in need of escape from the overwhelming vibratory feelings on your clitoris and G-spot but it eludes you, yes you will struggle attempt to move away, your efforts futile, the fight in you only adding to your psychological Joy! You can only surrender, give in, embrace this, set your mind free, you cannot stop the orgasms that are being forced upon you no matter how fiercely you struggle, soon you will weaken, your body will fall limp a trembling mass of glorious sweating flesh, satisfied to capacity, fully pacified you will surrender totally, abandon your will and accept your temporary fate and for a time have escaped from yourself and inhibitions, experienced shear orgasmic bliss . Then and only then, would the intense stimulation subside being replaced with a loving touch and soft stimulation letting you know your in good and caring hands.

My Ideal Person ****** No girls that are trolling or attempting to re-direct - real people only please ******
slightly inhibited but curious also beautiful and in shape, wanting to learn of herself and her own abilities,someone who appreciates a curious and gentle soul..

A woman who needs to be controlled or punished for her actions -be domed and forced to submit, I have minimal experience in this area but do have the appropriate toys and attitude, just need an appropriate partner, I would love to explore this side of myself and her as well..
I am attached so discretion is a must

I love woman- so I woman who just loves to cum, makes me happy, toys, bondage, massage, cunnilingus, and devouring every inch of her - all things
I love, I wouldn't mind finding a Dom either I have always wanted to Sub.

Good hygiene a must / disease free / friendly / open minded

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
This is tough one, but my biggest fantasy at this time in
my life would be to help open the girl for a young beautiful
Lady, help her get past what inhibits her and share the joys
of her sexuality with her, comfortably help her find herself and her ecstasy. To watch her grow
in this capacity and trust me enough to bring her to new levels.
to share in this journey with her !!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, All with like and willing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not so much

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 54 / male
  • Buena Park, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: February 1, 1964
Travels to: San diego, California, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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